I wanted to write and to share my real experience during my delivery process 3 months ago. I wanted to write about what had happened during the labor and etc. But seriously when I started to write on that thing, at that point of time I feel scared. Scared of remembering of what had happened on that day. I should say..it was the scariest thing ever..that happened in my life.
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But then, seeing Aneeq who turns 3 months yesterday and healthy (Alhamdulillah), I decided to write my normal delivery process since it was the greatest experience for myself even though it was seriously scary..so that when I'm about to give birth to Aneeq's future siblings ( not sure when hehe) I can refer to this, at least it can give me strength or a view or a self confidence or you name it or whatever. Hushh
Ok, back to the topic. To cut the story short, actually during my 7 months of pregnancy, the doctor told me that I had been suspected to have diabetic problem since my sugar reading at that time was quite high. So whether I like it or not, I have to deliver based on my due date. CAN'T be later than that. Which means, if tak deliver by 16Nov, aku akan di-induce untuk rasa sakit bersalin. Force delivery. Sakit, tahu? And, since then I always have this on my mind, and it scares me a lot. Seriously.
Everything went well and I had applied for maternity leave a week before the due date. I hope that and I keep on praying that I WILL delivered within that week, at least no force delivery, no induce and etc. Biar sakit semulajadi. Unfortunately, I feel nothing. Boleh pergi shopping barang baby lagi tu..
So hari yang ditakuti sampai juga. Hari Jumaat, 16hb November 2012. I was scheduled to get induced at early in the morning after the CTG ( checking on the baby's heart beat) and do the VE. ( vaginal examination). I hate VE. You can search it in the internet for further info. :). After all done, the MO ( medical doctor, not the houseman) which is a very gentle lady put something like a pill, macam panadol pil tu..she put it into my miss V. It didn't hurt me at all. VE lagi sakit kot. Then. aku ditahan wad for their observation. Apa yang nurse bagitau masa lepas aku kena induced tu is that normally for those who get induced will get their 2nd or 3rd induced baru boleh beranak. So I was like..err okay..I have to stay in the ward for 3 days kot if still tak deliver with the 1st induce. Dalam hati macam..pasrah je lah kan..
I have a feeling that sure aku akan diinduce untuk kali kedua since after the 1st one, I feel nothing at all. At all. Dari pukul 7.30pagi until 2pm..checking on VE bukaan cuma 1cm. Aku lagi la, ha..1cm? Tak sakit pun? -___-
Aizat and my whole family were really worried at that time. They keep on calling me asking about my condition. And being me, aku memang tak reti duduk diam kan. I was so anxious I could not sit still. I tossed and turned, I sat, I walked around, I read baby books. Family was not allowed to visit so I was all alone. Huhu. Luckily the room was okay, got air conditioner and so convenient. I just surfing the internet about delivery prosess and recite the Surah Maryam using my tablet so yeah I was not that bored,I should say.
So there it goes..I still feel nothing so I went to bed to have rest. But then..I still remember, it was 4am in the morning..I feel hot suddenly and wet. I looked at my pants, it was wet all over. So first thing came out from my mind is that my water bag is leaking. I push the button near my bed and called the nurse. She came and checking my temperature and gave me a new set of clothes. She asked me to change and quickly come to the checking room to do the VE again. At that time it was only 2cm dilated. The doctor ( houseman) told me that if by 6.30am the result is still the same, I will get my 2nd induced. The thing is that, I still feel nothing and yeah I was so redha at that time if that the only choice that I have.
Soon after that, I checked again and yeah got discharge, fresh blood but not that heavy. I went back to bed and sleep.
Tak lama lepas tu, tetiba aku rasa tak selesa. Sakit perut. Memulas-mulas. Bukan nak membuang. Its a no no. It happened every 15 minutes. I looked at my watch it was about 5.45am. Aku rasa sakit sangat. Sangat-sangat. Parents are allowed to visit at 6am so dalam masa sakit tu Aizat and my mother in law came in. I cried to Aizat, and he hold my hands dan berzikir dekat telinga aku. My mom in law on the other hand, buat air milo untuk beri tenaga untuk bersalin nanti. Based on her view at that time, aku memang akan bersalin pagi tu jugak. She brought so-called 'Air Selusuh' and asked me to drink it. Tak banyak pun aku minum. Sekadar sesudu, sebab rasa dia..ermmmmmmmm mestila tak sedap. Huhu..
It was 630am, Aizat and mom in law kena keluar wad. Masa melawat dah habis..aku menangis tak nak diorang tinggalkan aku. The nurse called me to do the VE again while me at that time I can't even stand still. Aizat pimpin aku ke bilik pemeriksaan. Tapi guard perempuan tu bising-bising suruh Aizat keluar. So Aizat terpaksa tinggalkan aku kat situ. Aku dah sakit sangat, macam dah 5 minit sekali. Nurse tengok aku dah pucat, she asked the doctor to bring me in first sebab masa tu ramai yang tengah tunggu untuk diseluk. Nurse pimpin aku masuk dan MO yang check not the houseman pagi tadi tu. Mujurlah. Doctor was surprised since after her checking she told to the nurse to bring me to the labor room as soon as possible. It was already 5cm approaching 6cm dilated.
Nurse dah kelam kabut cari wheel chair. Guard yang macam hampeh tadi pun kalut cari Aizat. Aizat was not there. Aizat di surau, solat Subuh and luckily my mom in law was there. She then quickly called Aizat, ( dia tengah baca Surah Maryam masa tu), bagitau yang aku dah ditolak masuk labor room dah. Aizat was so cuak, dia pun kelam kabut jugak. -___-
It was 7.30am but Aizat still not coming. The contractions were even worse. I just don't know what to do, the nurse came in, change my clothes and asked for baby's stuffs. Houseman came in, cucuk jarum dekat tangan but she FAILED. Dia tersilap cari urat tangan which ended bidan yang buat lastly. Cause me lebam dan padan muka houseman tu kena marah. Orang dah sakit, dia sakitkan lagi. Huhu
Aizat finally came. He saw me with pain, dia hampir menangis. Sakitnya Allah saja yang tahu. Aku dah tak tahan dengan sakit tu so I asked the houseman is there any painkiller that I can take because I can't hold it any longer. Nak meneran sangat-sangat dah. Masa tu bukaan dah 7cm, 8.30am. Houseman tu suruh aku sedut gas yang ada kat sebelah aku untuk kurangkan rasa sakit. Aku sedut banyaaaaaakkkk..but tak kurang pun sakit. In fact aku rasa MENGANTUK. Serius menyesal.
MO datang dalam pukul 9pagi. Masa tu ada houseman bangang mana ntah main seluk-seluk aku pastu buat muka confius, ' eh ni macam dah 8cm..eh macam 7cm lagi..' Aku tengah contraction kot. Rasa macam nak tendang je. Aizat was there, and I know he was mad at that time seeing they did that to me. Then MO datang untuk double check and he said that it's already 9cm. He asked me to PUSH. Okay, I was like..aku dah boleh beranak ke???' Sakit sangatttttt
Aku push dalam 3 kali tapi aku dah lali sangat. The doctor asked Aizat keluar dulu, and I know at that time mesti dah masuk kes kritikal. Bidan bisikkan dekat telinga asked me to try harder since the baby's head can be seen but I have no enough energy to push him out. Masa tu dalam samar-samar I heard his heart beat was beating so damn fast, Ya Allah aku tak nak jadi fetal distress. Aku rasa doctor tu gunting bahagian miss V aku but I don't know for what purpose. Doctor then told me..'Puan, just one push..cuba puan..this is the only way we can do for you. The rest is all up to you. Push kuat-kuat'. Masa tu dengan houseman, nurse, bidan, semua macam bersorak bagi semangat dah macam fun fair pun ada. Diorang mintak aku push sekuat hati aku, so dengan kelalian yang sangat-sangat, aku tarik nafas dalam-dalam and hembus sambil meneran. And then I heard the doctor said, "Good job..one more push. Baby tersekat dekat bahu. I need one more.". Aku push lagi then I feel something came out from me and then Aneeq's first scream loudly heard. I was so blessed. I looked at the watch that hanging on the wall..it was 9.31am. I just give birth to another human being at 9.31am, 17th November 2012. Happy tapi aku terlalu lali dan penat untuk melompat kegembiraan..:)
Lepas settle semua, I was informed that they wanted to check Aneeq's condition since the delivery was assisted with vacuum method. So kesan nya Aneeq dimasukkan ke NICU for 3 days and yes..I was so emotional at that time..menangis je aku kat rumah rindu Aneeq. After that 3 days, bawak Aneeq balik rumah the next day kena warded lagi because of the jaundice! Sedih sangat. Luckily sehari je warded lepas tu we both just monitor in KK. Alhamdulillah Aneeq jaundice tak lama, he was okay and healthy since then until now. Syukur sangat-sangat.
Pengalaman bersalin ni akan jadi something that would be the most scariest thing but then..when I think about it again..seeing Aneeq in my life I have to say that it was the most wonderful moment ever. I wanna do it again, InshaAllah sekiranya diberi keizinan dan dipanjangkan umur..Terima kasih Allah..YOU gave me one of your million miracles in my life. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat.
:)
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Friday, January 25, 2013
Susu ibu dan Aneeq :)
Sejak ada Aneeq ni, masa terluang aku semakin kurang. Masa aku banyak dihabiskan dengan melenyek-lenyek Aneeq sampai lunyai. Best betul ada anak ni, penat macam mana pun tengok Aneeq penat mesti cepat hilang. Syukurla, nikmat Allah bagi. :)
Aneeq sekarang dah makin nakal. Suka ajak orang bersembang. Kadang-kadang aku layankan aje, dia pun kalau dah orang melayan tu bercakap tak berhenti even orang tak faham sepatah pun. Dah pandai senyum dan gelak. Tahu tak, it is such a great feeling when you bf your baby lepas tu dia tengok muka kita, bertentang mata and then dia senyum sampai nampak gusi yang takda gigi tu. Geram tak? :) Having an eye contact with your baby while breastfeeding is something that..that I can't explain. Feel it yourself :)
I was morally down bila aku mengalami kemuruduman susu lepas demam hari tu, aku agak down dan stress sebenarnya. I always put the blame on me, I feel damn bad because I can't produce enough milk to Aneeq. Seriously sedih, susu aku hanya cukup-cukup untuk bagi Aneeq kenyang, aku tak boleh buat stok susu pun.
So we try another alternative to avoid things become even worse nanti. Aku tak mahu stay in a state of denial, just because of I want to fully bf Aneeq, hak kekenyangan Aneeq aku tak ambil kira. Sebab, yes we do have choices young lady. I have to think of something that can help me untuk kenyangkan Aneeq, which is something that I'm afraid of before ; Formula milk (fm). Aku terpaksa feed Aneeq dengan fm masa susu merudum hari tu sebab I want to teach him to taste it, in case kalau susu aku bekalkan tak cukup memenuhi kehendak Aneeq jadi memang dia terpaksa jugakla hadap susu fm ni. I cried watching Aneeq struggling and forcing himself masa aku suapkan botol dekat dia. Of course he refused to get feed, sebab susu ibu adalah yang terbaik kan. Tapi aku bisikkan dekat Aneeq just to try that first, it is not that I'm going to feed him with fm..but I have to..just in case. Aneeq cuba hadam dan telan, dan dia berjaya even terpaksa.
Seeing Aneeq macam terseksa sangat dengan fm, aku bertekad untuk try harder to increase my production milk. Aku consume macam-macam and I read a lottt just to know the method on how to increase the production. I even posted it in the FB, seeing that a lot of my friends now are a mother, maybe they can help me by sharing their experience. Kaedah yang paling berhasil yang aku cuba are 2 types. Satu, aku consume banyak lobak putih. Buat sayur cair letak ikan rebus..memang sedap. Lagi satu buat POWERPUMPING. Oh seriously this method helped me even better! Masa awal-awal buat, aku dapat pam angin je. Amount yang dapat just 1oz-1.5oz for 2 nights. Lepas dari tu dah mula bertambah dan bertambah and now already back to normal. Aku syukur sangat-sangat. Sekarang dah start kerja pun aku masih boleh bekalkan Aneeq dengan susu aku dekat babysitter. Alhamdulillah jugak, my work place is so convenient to do the pumping works during working hours. Aku ada buat jadual pumping setiap hari so bila siang even Aneeq tak da dengan aku pun, aku still boleh pump susu dan simpan susu untuk esok. Bila malam aku memang direct feed Aneeq je. That's how I do recently, dan Alhamdulillah production milk memang macam tu, so-so tapi Alhamdulillah masih cukup. Azam nak susukan Aneeq at least sampai 6 bulan harap-harap dimudahkan Allah. Dan, kalau boleh biarlah sampai dia umur 2 tahun. It's a bonus to me!
Kehidupan di KL tak jauh beza dengan life dekat Penang. But it is more happier since Hubby and little baby ada bersama. We are not that rich, but we are just happy of what we have right now. Doakan Aneeq cepat besar, dia pun dah 5.3kg at 2 months plus. Happy sangat tengok Aneeq membesar depan mata. Cuma bab Aneeq malam-malam tidur pukul 4 pagi tu yang meruntun jiwa tu. Hehe. Kadang-kadang kena gilir dengan Aizat, tapi aku dah faham macam mana nak tackle Aneeq. Time dia tidur, mak bapak haruslah tidur jugak. Time Aneeq jaga baru lah mak bapak berjaga dan masa tu la baru aku start buat kerja rumah. Hari Rabu lepas basuh kain dan basuh pinggan pukul 3 pagi yoo. heh, kau ade?
:)
Aneeq sekarang dah makin nakal. Suka ajak orang bersembang. Kadang-kadang aku layankan aje, dia pun kalau dah orang melayan tu bercakap tak berhenti even orang tak faham sepatah pun. Dah pandai senyum dan gelak. Tahu tak, it is such a great feeling when you bf your baby lepas tu dia tengok muka kita, bertentang mata and then dia senyum sampai nampak gusi yang takda gigi tu. Geram tak? :) Having an eye contact with your baby while breastfeeding is something that..that I can't explain. Feel it yourself :)
I was morally down bila aku mengalami kemuruduman susu lepas demam hari tu, aku agak down dan stress sebenarnya. I always put the blame on me, I feel damn bad because I can't produce enough milk to Aneeq. Seriously sedih, susu aku hanya cukup-cukup untuk bagi Aneeq kenyang, aku tak boleh buat stok susu pun.
So we try another alternative to avoid things become even worse nanti. Aku tak mahu stay in a state of denial, just because of I want to fully bf Aneeq, hak kekenyangan Aneeq aku tak ambil kira. Sebab, yes we do have choices young lady. I have to think of something that can help me untuk kenyangkan Aneeq, which is something that I'm afraid of before ; Formula milk (fm). Aku terpaksa feed Aneeq dengan fm masa susu merudum hari tu sebab I want to teach him to taste it, in case kalau susu aku bekalkan tak cukup memenuhi kehendak Aneeq jadi memang dia terpaksa jugakla hadap susu fm ni. I cried watching Aneeq struggling and forcing himself masa aku suapkan botol dekat dia. Of course he refused to get feed, sebab susu ibu adalah yang terbaik kan. Tapi aku bisikkan dekat Aneeq just to try that first, it is not that I'm going to feed him with fm..but I have to..just in case. Aneeq cuba hadam dan telan, dan dia berjaya even terpaksa.
Seeing Aneeq macam terseksa sangat dengan fm, aku bertekad untuk try harder to increase my production milk. Aku consume macam-macam and I read a lottt just to know the method on how to increase the production. I even posted it in the FB, seeing that a lot of my friends now are a mother, maybe they can help me by sharing their experience. Kaedah yang paling berhasil yang aku cuba are 2 types. Satu, aku consume banyak lobak putih. Buat sayur cair letak ikan rebus..memang sedap. Lagi satu buat POWERPUMPING. Oh seriously this method helped me even better! Masa awal-awal buat, aku dapat pam angin je. Amount yang dapat just 1oz-1.5oz for 2 nights. Lepas dari tu dah mula bertambah dan bertambah and now already back to normal. Aku syukur sangat-sangat. Sekarang dah start kerja pun aku masih boleh bekalkan Aneeq dengan susu aku dekat babysitter. Alhamdulillah jugak, my work place is so convenient to do the pumping works during working hours. Aku ada buat jadual pumping setiap hari so bila siang even Aneeq tak da dengan aku pun, aku still boleh pump susu dan simpan susu untuk esok. Bila malam aku memang direct feed Aneeq je. That's how I do recently, dan Alhamdulillah production milk memang macam tu, so-so tapi Alhamdulillah masih cukup. Azam nak susukan Aneeq at least sampai 6 bulan harap-harap dimudahkan Allah. Dan, kalau boleh biarlah sampai dia umur 2 tahun. It's a bonus to me!
Kehidupan di KL tak jauh beza dengan life dekat Penang. But it is more happier since Hubby and little baby ada bersama. We are not that rich, but we are just happy of what we have right now. Doakan Aneeq cepat besar, dia pun dah 5.3kg at 2 months plus. Happy sangat tengok Aneeq membesar depan mata. Cuma bab Aneeq malam-malam tidur pukul 4 pagi tu yang meruntun jiwa tu. Hehe. Kadang-kadang kena gilir dengan Aizat, tapi aku dah faham macam mana nak tackle Aneeq. Time dia tidur, mak bapak haruslah tidur jugak. Time Aneeq jaga baru lah mak bapak berjaga dan masa tu la baru aku start buat kerja rumah. Hari Rabu lepas basuh kain dan basuh pinggan pukul 3 pagi yoo. heh, kau ade?
:)
Friday, December 28, 2012
My new life :)
Alhamdulillah, Aqiqah Aneeq went smoothly last Tuesday. Penat lelah Aizat mencari kambing akhirnya berjaya juga..sedikit mahal, RM680 untuk seekor tak termasuk upah memasak. Quite a lot, tapi dah tanggungjawab parents untuk prepare semua tu selagi mampu, dan Alhamdulillah rezeki pun mencurah-curah since kehadiran Aneeq ni. Betul lah, setiap anak tu ada rezeki masing-masing..tak perlu takut kalau expenses akan jadi double or triple kalau dah ada anak, sebab Allah dah tentukan rezeki masing-masing. :) Dan sekarang Alhamdulillah..satu chapter dah selesai, but few more will come. Wish us luck :)
Offically today is my 40th day of confinement period. Which means, I have 4 days to go. Berpantang with beloved mother is one of the toughest thing in my life I should say. Banyak godaan dan rintangan yang datang sepanjang berpantang. Of course la foooood kan..mana boleh say no to all mom's cook, tapi aku ambik bau je lah since tak boleh nak hadap. Huhu. But the good thing is, my weight drop 11kgs for about a month. Yippee. Hopefully I can reach my pre-pregnancy weight which is about 8kgs more to go. Banyak tu..-___-
Well, I am now still give Aneeq a full breastfeeding. No added formula milk until to date. Syukurlah susu aku agak meriah since the first day delivery. Aku tak mengurut pun awal-awal pantang since I have the 3rd degree tear episiotomy so yea takut if jahitan tu terbuka. But luckily even masa tu tak mengurut lagi pun I still can breastfeed Aneeq sampai dia kenyang..susu pun sangat meriah. Alhamdulillah rezeki Aneeq sangat murah. Sekarang ni aku dah start buat stock susu untuk Aneeq bila aku dah masuk kerja nanti. Buat masa sekarang aku sekali pump hanya untuk 4oz je sebab boleh simpan dalam storage box yang mana kena bagi ada gap dalam storage tu sebab nanti bila simpan dalam fridge susu tu akan beku dan akan mengembang. Kalau sekali pump aku reach sampai 5-6oz aku akan simpan dalam second storage box. So far, dah almost 15 storage box aku dah simpan dalam fridge dan akan menambahkan koleksi nanti, InsyaAllah.
Susu stock ni actually boleh bertahan dalam suhu bilik about 4 hours only. Kalau kita simpan dalam ruangan sejuk fridge tu ia boleh stay until 7 days. Kalau dalam peti sejuk beku bahagian atas boleh bertahan 3-6 bulan. Tips lepas simpan stock susu ni, lepas pump jangan terus simpan dalam bahagian sejuk beku. Simpan di bahagian sejuk dulu. If in 5 days the storage milk still not used, then only can keep in the upper level, bahagian sejuk beku tu. Kalau dah cairkan susu tu, tak boleh bekukan balik, kena guna within 24hrs kot. Kalau tak silap la, ni pun info dapat dari bacaan google. Hehehe
Sekarang baru start ajar Aneeq minum susu aku guna botol. At first he was reluctant to use it. Asyik tolak dengan lidah. Tapi aku pujuk, masuk sikit-sikit dan so far alhamdulillah Aneeq mahu juga guna botol untuk minum susu. Kadang-kadang aku selang dengan direct breastfeed sebab nanti dia tak nak pulak puting aku nanti. Awal-awal tu aku cuba dengan botol BabyKiko and MAM, tapi Aneeq macam tak rela. So I decided to change to Tommee Tippee. Mujurla yang ni Aneeq boleh accept, so sekarang ni rasa lega jugak sebab satu masalah dah selesai. Even Aneeq still kena pujuk dulu baru dia rela nak guna botol, but in the end nanti sampai habis jugak satu botol dia hisap. Hehe. Good boy anak mama ni :)
So my next aim first sekali nak beli cooler bag untuk simpan susu kalau aku pump during working hours. Dekat office memang ada fridge, kalau boleh simpan situ je but to be safe beli je la cooler bag tu. Boleh tahan dari 12-24 jam tu. Stroller dah beli, which is cost us RM299. Aizat la berkenan sangat dengan stroller tu, macam mana nanti nak bawak balik ke KL pun tak tau la. Banyak kot barang! Huhu
Selama 40 hari aku berpantang dan menjaga Aneeq, aku bersyukur jugak sebab Aneeq tak banyak meragam. Dia jarang kembung perut dan tak pernah la Aneeq nangis sebab merap nak suruh orang dukung. Aneeq kalau dia terjaga dari tidur, dia tak immediate on siren bomba dia. Dia akan main sorang-sorang, kejap gelak, kejap tengok sana sini, lepas tu tangan tu gawang kanan kiri, tapi tak menangis. Aneeq akan on siren bomba yang kuat bila dia dah lapar. Semua orang dalam rumah bila dengar siren bomba Aneeq mesti dah faham yang dia dah lapar. Sebab aku tak biasakan Aneeq setiap masa kena dukung. Bila dia tak menangis, aku biar Aneeq main sorang-sorang but still I keep an eye on him. Kadang-kadang boleh tergelak tengok telatah dia. Alhamdulillah, Aneeq bijak dan tak pandai memerap. Anak lelaki mana boleh kuat merap kan..he has to be strong. Hehe. Ni tips aku baca dari satu link yang bos unit penang forward masa aku tengah pregnant dulu. Berhasil la jugak. Hehe
Aku insyaAllah akan start kerja in mid of Jan 2013. Maybe akan apply annual leave dalam 2,3 hari sebelum start kerja to actually adapt with the new environment. Ye la, ada orang baru kan..the schedule won't be the same as before lagi dah..aku kena start drive sendiri ke kerja dan tugasan menghantar dan ambil Aneeq dari babysitter aku akan uruskan. Babysitter tu aku dah booked since pregnant lagi. Mahal la jugak dia charge pun, tapi tak pa lah..tak sanggup nak hantar Aneeq ke nursery..macam paranoid tetiba. Hehe.
Aku akan bawak balik kereta aku ke KL nanti sebab senang nak bergerak. Aizat pun nak guna kereta dia juga nanti so to be fair masing-masing guna kereta sendiri. Tugasan aku la kot yang banyak sikit sebab kena uruskan Aneeq. Aizat balik kerja pukul 6, busuk-busuk nak sampai rumah pun maybe pukul 7. Lambat sangat. So aku pun volunteer la nak uruskan Aneeq sebab aku balik kerja awal, so dapat la masak dan do the house chores sementara tunggu Aizat balik. Hehe..See? Aku dah well-planned kan? Macam ibu yang berdedikasi je ye tak? Hehe
Well,this is the life that I've been dreaming of actually. I know it sounds easy, but the real thing it is not. I don't know how it will treat me later, but one thing for sure..I feel blessed for having this chance. Harap-harap next coming years nanti more good news will hit us. InsyaAllah, Amin! :)
Let's get it started bebeh!
Offically today is my 40th day of confinement period. Which means, I have 4 days to go. Berpantang with beloved mother is one of the toughest thing in my life I should say. Banyak godaan dan rintangan yang datang sepanjang berpantang. Of course la foooood kan..mana boleh say no to all mom's cook, tapi aku ambik bau je lah since tak boleh nak hadap. Huhu. But the good thing is, my weight drop 11kgs for about a month. Yippee. Hopefully I can reach my pre-pregnancy weight which is about 8kgs more to go. Banyak tu..-___-
Well, I am now still give Aneeq a full breastfeeding. No added formula milk until to date. Syukurlah susu aku agak meriah since the first day delivery. Aku tak mengurut pun awal-awal pantang since I have the 3rd degree tear episiotomy so yea takut if jahitan tu terbuka. But luckily even masa tu tak mengurut lagi pun I still can breastfeed Aneeq sampai dia kenyang..susu pun sangat meriah. Alhamdulillah rezeki Aneeq sangat murah. Sekarang ni aku dah start buat stock susu untuk Aneeq bila aku dah masuk kerja nanti. Buat masa sekarang aku sekali pump hanya untuk 4oz je sebab boleh simpan dalam storage box yang mana kena bagi ada gap dalam storage tu sebab nanti bila simpan dalam fridge susu tu akan beku dan akan mengembang. Kalau sekali pump aku reach sampai 5-6oz aku akan simpan dalam second storage box. So far, dah almost 15 storage box aku dah simpan dalam fridge dan akan menambahkan koleksi nanti, InsyaAllah.
Susu stock ni actually boleh bertahan dalam suhu bilik about 4 hours only. Kalau kita simpan dalam ruangan sejuk fridge tu ia boleh stay until 7 days. Kalau dalam peti sejuk beku bahagian atas boleh bertahan 3-6 bulan. Tips lepas simpan stock susu ni, lepas pump jangan terus simpan dalam bahagian sejuk beku. Simpan di bahagian sejuk dulu. If in 5 days the storage milk still not used, then only can keep in the upper level, bahagian sejuk beku tu. Kalau dah cairkan susu tu, tak boleh bekukan balik, kena guna within 24hrs kot. Kalau tak silap la, ni pun info dapat dari bacaan google. Hehehe
Sekarang baru start ajar Aneeq minum susu aku guna botol. At first he was reluctant to use it. Asyik tolak dengan lidah. Tapi aku pujuk, masuk sikit-sikit dan so far alhamdulillah Aneeq mahu juga guna botol untuk minum susu. Kadang-kadang aku selang dengan direct breastfeed sebab nanti dia tak nak pulak puting aku nanti. Awal-awal tu aku cuba dengan botol BabyKiko and MAM, tapi Aneeq macam tak rela. So I decided to change to Tommee Tippee. Mujurla yang ni Aneeq boleh accept, so sekarang ni rasa lega jugak sebab satu masalah dah selesai. Even Aneeq still kena pujuk dulu baru dia rela nak guna botol, but in the end nanti sampai habis jugak satu botol dia hisap. Hehe. Good boy anak mama ni :)
So my next aim first sekali nak beli cooler bag untuk simpan susu kalau aku pump during working hours. Dekat office memang ada fridge, kalau boleh simpan situ je but to be safe beli je la cooler bag tu. Boleh tahan dari 12-24 jam tu. Stroller dah beli, which is cost us RM299. Aizat la berkenan sangat dengan stroller tu, macam mana nanti nak bawak balik ke KL pun tak tau la. Banyak kot barang! Huhu
Selama 40 hari aku berpantang dan menjaga Aneeq, aku bersyukur jugak sebab Aneeq tak banyak meragam. Dia jarang kembung perut dan tak pernah la Aneeq nangis sebab merap nak suruh orang dukung. Aneeq kalau dia terjaga dari tidur, dia tak immediate on siren bomba dia. Dia akan main sorang-sorang, kejap gelak, kejap tengok sana sini, lepas tu tangan tu gawang kanan kiri, tapi tak menangis. Aneeq akan on siren bomba yang kuat bila dia dah lapar. Semua orang dalam rumah bila dengar siren bomba Aneeq mesti dah faham yang dia dah lapar. Sebab aku tak biasakan Aneeq setiap masa kena dukung. Bila dia tak menangis, aku biar Aneeq main sorang-sorang but still I keep an eye on him. Kadang-kadang boleh tergelak tengok telatah dia. Alhamdulillah, Aneeq bijak dan tak pandai memerap. Anak lelaki mana boleh kuat merap kan..he has to be strong. Hehe. Ni tips aku baca dari satu link yang bos unit penang forward masa aku tengah pregnant dulu. Berhasil la jugak. Hehe
Aku insyaAllah akan start kerja in mid of Jan 2013. Maybe akan apply annual leave dalam 2,3 hari sebelum start kerja to actually adapt with the new environment. Ye la, ada orang baru kan..the schedule won't be the same as before lagi dah..aku kena start drive sendiri ke kerja dan tugasan menghantar dan ambil Aneeq dari babysitter aku akan uruskan. Babysitter tu aku dah booked since pregnant lagi. Mahal la jugak dia charge pun, tapi tak pa lah..tak sanggup nak hantar Aneeq ke nursery..macam paranoid tetiba. Hehe.
Aku akan bawak balik kereta aku ke KL nanti sebab senang nak bergerak. Aizat pun nak guna kereta dia juga nanti so to be fair masing-masing guna kereta sendiri. Tugasan aku la kot yang banyak sikit sebab kena uruskan Aneeq. Aizat balik kerja pukul 6, busuk-busuk nak sampai rumah pun maybe pukul 7. Lambat sangat. So aku pun volunteer la nak uruskan Aneeq sebab aku balik kerja awal, so dapat la masak dan do the house chores sementara tunggu Aizat balik. Hehe..See? Aku dah well-planned kan? Macam ibu yang berdedikasi je ye tak? Hehe
Well,this is the life that I've been dreaming of actually. I know it sounds easy, but the real thing it is not. I don't know how it will treat me later, but one thing for sure..I feel blessed for having this chance. Harap-harap next coming years nanti more good news will hit us. InsyaAllah, Amin! :)
Let's get it started bebeh!
Friday, November 30, 2012
Pengalaman Bersalin ; Just for sharing :)
Alhamdulillah, dah 14 hari aku selamat bersalinkan Aneeq.:) Setelah bergelut dengan kesakitan yang amat sangat selama lebih 2 jam, aku berjaya melahirkan another human being, a baby boy at 3.38kg. Besar jugak la sebenarnya and no wonder masa aku mengandung dulu semua orang asyik tegur perut aku besar je. I was so worried at that time if my baby weight more than 3.5kg sebab chances untuk operate tu macam tinggi jugak. Tapi Alhamdulillah, dapat jugak bersalin normal dengan bantuan vacuum. Eventhough ada orang cakap, 'Eh, kenapa tak bersalin biasa je? Tak larat nak teran ke?' Well hey, aku bersyukur sangat dapat lahirkan anak aku dengan normal even bantuan vacuum, at least aku tak perlu kena operate. Cuma, jahitnya agak banyak jugak tapi takpala, pengalaman pertama kan. :)
Sebelum ni aku selalu confused dengan istilah contraction. Selalu terjadi the false one. Tapi bila sakit contraction yang betul-betul aku dah rasa, sakit nya adalah sangatlah jauh berbeza. Kalau setakat perut mengeras and kau still boleh golek-golek atas katil dengan happy, boleh makan dengan tenang atau sembang-sembang dengan riang, mind my words; itu bukan contraction betul-betul. Maybe baby saja mengeras kat dalam kot. Sebabnya, sakit contraction yang betul-betul ni Ya Allah..sakitnya sangatlah sakit. Macam pinggang kena pulas, macam perut nak pecah. Dan yang paling sakit sebab bila contraction tu datang, korang akan rasa macam nak meneran but you just can't. Doctor tak benarkan proses push tu sampai la bukaan sampai 9cm to 10cm. Kena tahan dan tunggu green light dari doctor. Doctor cakap i'm progressing very well time tu sebab aku tak perlu sakit lama untuk tunggu bukaan sampai 9cm. Just 2 hours, but then for me that 2 hours is the longest time ever. Sebab sakit sangat-sangat...luckily Aizat was there in the labour room. Dia pegang tangan aku kuat-kuat sambil berzikir tak henti-henti. Setiap kali aku contraction, which at that time opening dah 7cm, sakit nya dah makin kerap..dalam 3minit sekali. Aizat akan cakap, 'Sabar sayang..sabar..'. Aku tak menangis, cuma terfikir bila la aku boleh push sebab dah rasa macam nak terkeluar sangat dah..And, at 9.31am, aku selamat melahirkan Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat. :)
Betul orang cakap, menjadi seorang ibu adalah anugerah dari Allah yang tak ternilai harganya. Anak itu adalah amanah Allah, dan setiap kali aku menatap wajah Aneeq, I can't believe that for 9 months aku mengandungkan dia, sekarang ni dia ada di sebelah aku. Another human being man. Rasa macam mimpi. Syukurlah ya Allah.
Lepas melahirkan ni, aku nak nasihatkan semua parents-to-be untuk kuatkan semangat mental dan fizikal hadap situasi anak kena demam kuning or jaundice. Aneeq kena jaundice sampai kena masuk wad kot..sebab kuning dia turun naik..tak tetap..banyak jugakla cara kami usahakan dan Alhamdulillah..Aneeq dah okay sekarang..aku nangis teruk kot bila tengok Aneeq kena duduk bawah lampu sampaikan aku volunteer nak stay dalam ward jaga Aneeq and breastfeed dia. Mungkin sebab kegigihan aku yang tak berbelah bagi pada Aneeq kot, Allah mudahkan dan tolong aku. Aneeq stay dalam ward satu malam je, lepas tu kami monitor dekat Klinik Kesihatan. So nanti pada sapa-sapa yang anak kena jaundice boleh la tanya aku cara-cara perubatan tradisional yang dah diusahakan untuk turunkan bacaan kuning tu. Kita cuma usaha, yang selebihnya serahkan pada Allah. Jangan give up sudah. Yang penting jangan biarkan budak tu kena jaundice lebih dari 14 hari, kalau tak itu dah kena prolonged jaundice, lain cerita pulak. Mintak simpang la...
Ada few friends of mine yang tengah counting days/months for delivery. Aku doakan semuanya akan selamat. Ingat, masa dah masuk ward tapi sakit tu tak datang lagi, tolongla makan bagi ada energy. Jangan tak lalu pulak. Nak meneran nanti wey..tenaga kena banyak. Maksud aku, sangat banyak. Jangan angkat punggung, kalau tak nanti jahitnya pun banyak. Jangan ambil apa-apa pelali kurangkan sakit contraction, kalau tak nanti korang tak da tenaga sebab rasa lali, macam aku..dah cantik meneran, dekat hujung-hujung dah tak mampu sebab tu guna vacuum, dan kena jahit banyaaaakkkkkkkk. Argh..lesson learned kan. Aku share ni sebab aku tau ada kawan-kawan yang tengah expecting akan baca, dan pada yang sedang mencuba pun mungkin akan baca..this is truly my experience. Just for sharing. Semoga selamat untuk korang dan all the best!
Nak share gambar Aneeq, boleh? :)
Ini la kekasih hati baru aku..9 bulan mengandung wey. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat ; 14 days.
:)
Sebelum ni aku selalu confused dengan istilah contraction. Selalu terjadi the false one. Tapi bila sakit contraction yang betul-betul aku dah rasa, sakit nya adalah sangatlah jauh berbeza. Kalau setakat perut mengeras and kau still boleh golek-golek atas katil dengan happy, boleh makan dengan tenang atau sembang-sembang dengan riang, mind my words; itu bukan contraction betul-betul. Maybe baby saja mengeras kat dalam kot. Sebabnya, sakit contraction yang betul-betul ni Ya Allah..sakitnya sangatlah sakit. Macam pinggang kena pulas, macam perut nak pecah. Dan yang paling sakit sebab bila contraction tu datang, korang akan rasa macam nak meneran but you just can't. Doctor tak benarkan proses push tu sampai la bukaan sampai 9cm to 10cm. Kena tahan dan tunggu green light dari doctor. Doctor cakap i'm progressing very well time tu sebab aku tak perlu sakit lama untuk tunggu bukaan sampai 9cm. Just 2 hours, but then for me that 2 hours is the longest time ever. Sebab sakit sangat-sangat...luckily Aizat was there in the labour room. Dia pegang tangan aku kuat-kuat sambil berzikir tak henti-henti. Setiap kali aku contraction, which at that time opening dah 7cm, sakit nya dah makin kerap..dalam 3minit sekali. Aizat akan cakap, 'Sabar sayang..sabar..'. Aku tak menangis, cuma terfikir bila la aku boleh push sebab dah rasa macam nak terkeluar sangat dah..And, at 9.31am, aku selamat melahirkan Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat. :)
Betul orang cakap, menjadi seorang ibu adalah anugerah dari Allah yang tak ternilai harganya. Anak itu adalah amanah Allah, dan setiap kali aku menatap wajah Aneeq, I can't believe that for 9 months aku mengandungkan dia, sekarang ni dia ada di sebelah aku. Another human being man. Rasa macam mimpi. Syukurlah ya Allah.
Lepas melahirkan ni, aku nak nasihatkan semua parents-to-be untuk kuatkan semangat mental dan fizikal hadap situasi anak kena demam kuning or jaundice. Aneeq kena jaundice sampai kena masuk wad kot..sebab kuning dia turun naik..tak tetap..banyak jugakla cara kami usahakan dan Alhamdulillah..Aneeq dah okay sekarang..aku nangis teruk kot bila tengok Aneeq kena duduk bawah lampu sampaikan aku volunteer nak stay dalam ward jaga Aneeq and breastfeed dia. Mungkin sebab kegigihan aku yang tak berbelah bagi pada Aneeq kot, Allah mudahkan dan tolong aku. Aneeq stay dalam ward satu malam je, lepas tu kami monitor dekat Klinik Kesihatan. So nanti pada sapa-sapa yang anak kena jaundice boleh la tanya aku cara-cara perubatan tradisional yang dah diusahakan untuk turunkan bacaan kuning tu. Kita cuma usaha, yang selebihnya serahkan pada Allah. Jangan give up sudah. Yang penting jangan biarkan budak tu kena jaundice lebih dari 14 hari, kalau tak itu dah kena prolonged jaundice, lain cerita pulak. Mintak simpang la...
Ada few friends of mine yang tengah counting days/months for delivery. Aku doakan semuanya akan selamat. Ingat, masa dah masuk ward tapi sakit tu tak datang lagi, tolongla makan bagi ada energy. Jangan tak lalu pulak. Nak meneran nanti wey..tenaga kena banyak. Maksud aku, sangat banyak. Jangan angkat punggung, kalau tak nanti jahitnya pun banyak. Jangan ambil apa-apa pelali kurangkan sakit contraction, kalau tak nanti korang tak da tenaga sebab rasa lali, macam aku..dah cantik meneran, dekat hujung-hujung dah tak mampu sebab tu guna vacuum, dan kena jahit banyaaaakkkkkkkk. Argh..lesson learned kan. Aku share ni sebab aku tau ada kawan-kawan yang tengah expecting akan baca, dan pada yang sedang mencuba pun mungkin akan baca..this is truly my experience. Just for sharing. Semoga selamat untuk korang dan all the best!
Nak share gambar Aneeq, boleh? :)
Ini la kekasih hati baru aku..9 bulan mengandung wey. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat ; 14 days.
:)
Friday, November 2, 2012
Me at 38 weeks.
Assalamuaalaikum..
Hari ni genap 38 minggu. And, i'm still working, just banyak mengadap PC je lah. Cuak sebenarnya, sebab both sisters actually deliver at 38 weeks. Barang-barang semua dah ready dalam kereta Aizat just in case of emergency. Cuma aku, maybe sebab macam cuak sangat kot..in state of denial lagi..rasa macam..'Wahhh dah November!". So far memang tak da apa-apa tanda lagi..just kadang-kadang jadi false contraction gitu..main-main pulak baby boy aku neh kan..
Next week aku ada check up untuk 38 minggu ++ dengan Klinik Kesihatan Ampang. Rasanya last check up kot kat sini. My parents wanted me to go back to Alor Setar for the delivery. Ikutkan hati tak kisah mana-mana pun, as long as hubby is there..seriously, tak mau la aku meneran sorang-sorang without Aizat..harap-harap Allah mudahkan perjalanan tu nanti..
So based on due date, 2 weeks from now is on 16 Nov 2012. Maternity leave aku maybe start a week earlier kot. Gamble je lah nanti, mintak Aizat hantar balik Alor Setar, hopefully sempat la balik nanti.
Aku ada baca few blogs regarding on the tips to deliver. e.g : tanda-tanda nak bersalin and what to do when you started to feel the pain of delivery. Wey aku sampai nangis kot baca each of the post. Pengalaman setiap orang tak sama, ada yang senang, ada yang susah gila. Well, sakit bersalin tu berbaloi la kan dengan rahmat dan nikmat yang Allah kurniakan untuk seorang wanita. Itu je yang aku fikir. Whatever happens, it comes with reason.
Mak aku and in law actually macam risau sikit in case by next week aku dah deliver, which means aku akan deliver dekat KL la kan. To be truth, kalau aku bersalin dekat KL yang ada cuma aku..dan Aizat. Sebab both mom n in law tak dapat turun ke KL sebab adik and adik ipar aku both kena sit for SPM which akan start this 5th Nov. Aku anggap ni dugaan. To be honest, sapa tak sedih kan?
Kalau ikutkan mak aku, dia memang suruh balik this weekend jugak. The problem is that, annual leave aku pun just ada ngam-ngam for a week. More than that maybe kena apply no pay la kot. Since doctor advised to just stick to my EDD date which falls on 16th Nov, aku kena apply maternity leave on that day. Tak boleh awal dari tu. HQ tak kasi..huhu
Tapi kalau deliver awal, then maternity leave will falls on that day lah. Kalau terlewat dari due, there you go..di situla annual leave akan digunakan. Serba- salah aku ni.. Mak sangat risau dengan condition aku yang cuma ada Aizat, and yes aku pun kesiankan Aizat jugak. Setiap kali terjadi false contraction tu, dia mesti panik..mesti tanya..'nak abang panggil ambulans ka?' Kadang-kadang dia sampai tak makan, and tak mandi bila tengok aku dah memusing sana sini sebab perut memulas and akan temankan aku sampai la aku okay tak pun aku tertido terus. Huhu. Thanks hubby..Jasamu dikenang..
Ada kawan aku di Unit Penang yang due date a week after dari aku pun dah start rasa pain tu dah. She is actually dah applied for maternity leave since doctor told her that she might delivered 2 weeks earlier than her due date. Selalu message aku informed 'kesakitan' dia tu. Uhuk3, aku cuaaakkk..satu, sebab why I don't feel anything eventho the baby already engaged and second is that..weyyy sakit kot kalau contraction yang betul-betul tu! Especially time kena seluk, kawan aku cakap boleh menitik-nitik air mata time kena seluk just to check berapa cm dah bukak jalan. Cuak wey...cuaaaakkkkk -___-
Emmm dah la dah la tak nak tulis apa-apa lagi. Tahap kecuakan aku dah sampai petala lapan dah ni..Tetiba emo. Nak balik cepat peluk Aizat kuat-kuat. Huuu
Bye
Hari ni genap 38 minggu. And, i'm still working, just banyak mengadap PC je lah. Cuak sebenarnya, sebab both sisters actually deliver at 38 weeks. Barang-barang semua dah ready dalam kereta Aizat just in case of emergency. Cuma aku, maybe sebab macam cuak sangat kot..in state of denial lagi..rasa macam..'Wahhh dah November!". So far memang tak da apa-apa tanda lagi..just kadang-kadang jadi false contraction gitu..main-main pulak baby boy aku neh kan..
Next week aku ada check up untuk 38 minggu ++ dengan Klinik Kesihatan Ampang. Rasanya last check up kot kat sini. My parents wanted me to go back to Alor Setar for the delivery. Ikutkan hati tak kisah mana-mana pun, as long as hubby is there..seriously, tak mau la aku meneran sorang-sorang without Aizat..harap-harap Allah mudahkan perjalanan tu nanti..
So based on due date, 2 weeks from now is on 16 Nov 2012. Maternity leave aku maybe start a week earlier kot. Gamble je lah nanti, mintak Aizat hantar balik Alor Setar, hopefully sempat la balik nanti.
Aku ada baca few blogs regarding on the tips to deliver. e.g : tanda-tanda nak bersalin and what to do when you started to feel the pain of delivery. Wey aku sampai nangis kot baca each of the post. Pengalaman setiap orang tak sama, ada yang senang, ada yang susah gila. Well, sakit bersalin tu berbaloi la kan dengan rahmat dan nikmat yang Allah kurniakan untuk seorang wanita. Itu je yang aku fikir. Whatever happens, it comes with reason.
Mak aku and in law actually macam risau sikit in case by next week aku dah deliver, which means aku akan deliver dekat KL la kan. To be truth, kalau aku bersalin dekat KL yang ada cuma aku..dan Aizat. Sebab both mom n in law tak dapat turun ke KL sebab adik and adik ipar aku both kena sit for SPM which akan start this 5th Nov. Aku anggap ni dugaan. To be honest, sapa tak sedih kan?
Kalau ikutkan mak aku, dia memang suruh balik this weekend jugak. The problem is that, annual leave aku pun just ada ngam-ngam for a week. More than that maybe kena apply no pay la kot. Since doctor advised to just stick to my EDD date which falls on 16th Nov, aku kena apply maternity leave on that day. Tak boleh awal dari tu. HQ tak kasi..huhu
Tapi kalau deliver awal, then maternity leave will falls on that day lah. Kalau terlewat dari due, there you go..di situla annual leave akan digunakan. Serba- salah aku ni.. Mak sangat risau dengan condition aku yang cuma ada Aizat, and yes aku pun kesiankan Aizat jugak. Setiap kali terjadi false contraction tu, dia mesti panik..mesti tanya..'nak abang panggil ambulans ka?' Kadang-kadang dia sampai tak makan, and tak mandi bila tengok aku dah memusing sana sini sebab perut memulas and akan temankan aku sampai la aku okay tak pun aku tertido terus. Huhu. Thanks hubby..Jasamu dikenang..
Ada kawan aku di Unit Penang yang due date a week after dari aku pun dah start rasa pain tu dah. She is actually dah applied for maternity leave since doctor told her that she might delivered 2 weeks earlier than her due date. Selalu message aku informed 'kesakitan' dia tu. Uhuk3, aku cuaaakkk..satu, sebab why I don't feel anything eventho the baby already engaged and second is that..weyyy sakit kot kalau contraction yang betul-betul tu! Especially time kena seluk, kawan aku cakap boleh menitik-nitik air mata time kena seluk just to check berapa cm dah bukak jalan. Cuak wey...cuaaaakkkkk -___-
Emmm dah la dah la tak nak tulis apa-apa lagi. Tahap kecuakan aku dah sampai petala lapan dah ni..Tetiba emo. Nak balik cepat peluk Aizat kuat-kuat. Huuu
Bye
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Sneak a peek
Well hey, it's 36 weeks already! Ya Allah, i am so nervous and i feel like my whole body is shaking whenever I think about it. Seriously.
I am so blessed for not having too much of problems or craving for foods like crazy during my pregnancy period. Most of the time, when I feel like eating something, I will go and get it by myself since my husband is too far away and we are not living together yet since we get married due to work demands. Well yeah, I have to admit that it was the time when I really need my husband the most ; frankly speaking. But Alhamdulillah, everything is so clear right now, I finally with my husband when i'm approaching my 3rd trimester. Hmm better late than never, isn't?
I just wanna share few things about my 3D/4D checked up. I did my 3D/4D scan at Klinik Fauziah and Rakan-rakan in Ampang. The sonographer, Ms Jezzlyn is the best ever. Her service is highly recommended to all moms to be since she is so soft and very gentle handling me and my baby during the scanning progress. At first my baby refused to show his face and we are getting so upset since we cannot see his face. Then, Ms Jezz slowly talked to my baby and then my baby suddenly removed his hands and his face can be seen in the monitor and i was like, Subhanallah..that's my baby! He moved here and there, siap menguap lagi..tunjuk pipi tembam which is exactly like his mother! Whehe.. Aizat was so excited and he keep on saying..'Ha..ikut mama dia la..hidung ikut mama jugak..' sounds like macam dia upset sikit sebab for what we saw our baby memang ikut muka mama yang banyak compared to him..hehe..sorry Abah! :)
At first, i was reluctant to do the 3D/4D scan since i'm approaching 35 weeks already. And based on the review, normally at this period it is so hard to see the baby, only his/her movement can be seen and not really full captured. Tapi lepas kena pujuk dengan Aizat, then i agreed to go..bukan apa, takut aku frust je nanti kalau tak dapat tengok muka baby..But i was so lucky because i can see my baby and his cute face. Heee, syukur Alhamdulillah.. It's really worth it..seriously.
Here, lets see how my baby looks like after the 3D/4D scan. :)
He is so chubby kan? Like his mother. ^__^.. Actually, got few more photos captured, but this is the best shot for me I think...and got few videos jugak. Tiap-tiap malam aku akan tengok video tu sambil belek-belek gambar yang sempat captured. Macam dah mabuk cinta nampaknya..hee
Well, my little baby...you are now is still in Mama's tummy, if only you know..how Mama and Abah are so excited to see you and to have you in our arms. Stay healthy inside and not even a month pun my darling..we will be together..InsyaAllah..
Can't wait! :)
I am so blessed for not having too much of problems or craving for foods like crazy during my pregnancy period. Most of the time, when I feel like eating something, I will go and get it by myself since my husband is too far away and we are not living together yet since we get married due to work demands. Well yeah, I have to admit that it was the time when I really need my husband the most ; frankly speaking. But Alhamdulillah, everything is so clear right now, I finally with my husband when i'm approaching my 3rd trimester. Hmm better late than never, isn't?
I just wanna share few things about my 3D/4D checked up. I did my 3D/4D scan at Klinik Fauziah and Rakan-rakan in Ampang. The sonographer, Ms Jezzlyn is the best ever. Her service is highly recommended to all moms to be since she is so soft and very gentle handling me and my baby during the scanning progress. At first my baby refused to show his face and we are getting so upset since we cannot see his face. Then, Ms Jezz slowly talked to my baby and then my baby suddenly removed his hands and his face can be seen in the monitor and i was like, Subhanallah..that's my baby! He moved here and there, siap menguap lagi..tunjuk pipi tembam which is exactly like his mother! Whehe.. Aizat was so excited and he keep on saying..'Ha..ikut mama dia la..hidung ikut mama jugak..' sounds like macam dia upset sikit sebab for what we saw our baby memang ikut muka mama yang banyak compared to him..hehe..sorry Abah! :)
At first, i was reluctant to do the 3D/4D scan since i'm approaching 35 weeks already. And based on the review, normally at this period it is so hard to see the baby, only his/her movement can be seen and not really full captured. Tapi lepas kena pujuk dengan Aizat, then i agreed to go..bukan apa, takut aku frust je nanti kalau tak dapat tengok muka baby..But i was so lucky because i can see my baby and his cute face. Heee, syukur Alhamdulillah.. It's really worth it..seriously.
Here, lets see how my baby looks like after the 3D/4D scan. :)
He is so chubby kan? Like his mother. ^__^.. Actually, got few more photos captured, but this is the best shot for me I think...and got few videos jugak. Tiap-tiap malam aku akan tengok video tu sambil belek-belek gambar yang sempat captured. Macam dah mabuk cinta nampaknya..hee
Well, my little baby...you are now is still in Mama's tummy, if only you know..how Mama and Abah are so excited to see you and to have you in our arms. Stay healthy inside and not even a month pun my darling..we will be together..InsyaAllah..
Can't wait! :)
Sunday, October 7, 2012
My baby checklist :)
As parents-to-be at anytime soon, me and Aizat still discussing whether what we have prepared earlier is actually enough or not for our baby when he's born sooner. Seriously, we thought that we had prepared every single thing for him but it seems like we both are never satisfied, like seriously.
So until now i still keep on updating my check-list for all the stuffs that might be needed when our baby is born. Google here and there, found this and that, but i feel like, it's never enough. And, one thing for sure..it's been quite some time already since i bought myself anything, same goes to Aizat. All of our saving, salary ( after deducting all the commitments), all will successfully transferred to our baby-saving account. And i'm proud to say that i finally can keep more than RM3k just for the preparation of our baby. (not including Aizat's money). Percayaalaaaahh. Ngehehe
So people, let's list down what had been prepared for our little-one soon to be ; insyaAllah. Hopefully this checklist can help you readers; a mother to-be to have something in your mind on what to buy/ to prepare for your baby :
Clothings :
a) Top & Pants / Rompers / Sleep suits - Checked. Bought newborn size for about 4 pieces, the rest combined with 3-6 & 6-12 months. Total almost 20.
b) Mittens & Booties - Checked. Got 7 pairs, mixed with blue, white and brown.
c) Blanket : Checked. 1 only
d) Hats : Checked. 4 sets. Ini digunakan masa nak bawa baby pegi check-up.
e) Tummy binders : Checked. 4 pieces. Better buy the one yang boleh ikat instead of yang lekat since we don't know how the size of the baby when she/he is born. If the baby is too big, nanti yang jenis lekat tu langsung tak boleh guna.
Changing & Diapering :
a) Changing mat : Checked. One piece
b) Baby wipes : Checked. 6 packs
c) Disposable diapers/ Pampers : Checked. Bought for new born size but comes in 64 pieces. It's too much i think, mesti tak habis guna but then blame it to Aizat. Beria sangat nak beli yang banyak pieces. Hehe
d) Napkins : Checked. Got 12 pieces from Anakku. This one being requested by my mom sebab nanti during my maternity dia akan jaga, so dia nak guna untuk bedung baby nanti.
Nursery :
a) Baby cot : Not checked.
b) Comforters, Pillow & Bolsters : Checked. Sponsored by mother-in-law
c) Baby bag : Checked. This one is used during the emergency. You have to put some of the baby clothes, toiletries, pampers which will be used after you giving birth. ( normally masa dekat hospital)
d) Mosquito net : Checked
Bathing & Grooming :
a) Bath Tub : Cheked
b) Toiletries ( Baby Bath/ Baby Oil/ Lotion/ Baby Powder / Minyak Yuyi) : Checked. All in small size, Johnson & Johnson
c) Bath Towels : Checked. 3 sets
d) Baby comb / brush : Not checked
e) Cotton buds : Not checked
f) Baby Nail Clipper : Not checked
Feeding :
a) Feeding bottle and teats : Checked. 4 bottles. Different in size
b) Teat & Bottle brush : Checked
c) Bottle cleanser : Not checked
d) Sterilizer : Not checked
Mommy's stuffs :
- Breast feeding
a) Breast pump - Checked. Medela brand
b) Breastmilk storage containers : Not checked
c) Nursing bras : Not checked
d) Maternity pad : Checked
e) Nursing/ Breast pads : Checked
f) Set bersalin : Checked. Nona Roguy
Okay, I think this is all for now. Maybe I will continue updating my check list until all are completely checked. Hopefully this is the best one.
Ok, bye :)
So until now i still keep on updating my check-list for all the stuffs that might be needed when our baby is born. Google here and there, found this and that, but i feel like, it's never enough. And, one thing for sure..it's been quite some time already since i bought myself anything, same goes to Aizat. All of our saving, salary ( after deducting all the commitments), all will successfully transferred to our baby-saving account. And i'm proud to say that i finally can keep more than RM3k just for the preparation of our baby. (not including Aizat's money). Percayaalaaaahh. Ngehehe
So people, let's list down what had been prepared for our little-one soon to be ; insyaAllah. Hopefully this checklist can help you readers; a mother to-be to have something in your mind on what to buy/ to prepare for your baby :
Clothings :
a) Top & Pants / Rompers / Sleep suits - Checked. Bought newborn size for about 4 pieces, the rest combined with 3-6 & 6-12 months. Total almost 20.
b) Mittens & Booties - Checked. Got 7 pairs, mixed with blue, white and brown.
c) Blanket : Checked. 1 only
d) Hats : Checked. 4 sets. Ini digunakan masa nak bawa baby pegi check-up.
e) Tummy binders : Checked. 4 pieces. Better buy the one yang boleh ikat instead of yang lekat since we don't know how the size of the baby when she/he is born. If the baby is too big, nanti yang jenis lekat tu langsung tak boleh guna.
Changing & Diapering :
a) Changing mat : Checked. One piece
b) Baby wipes : Checked. 6 packs
c) Disposable diapers/ Pampers : Checked. Bought for new born size but comes in 64 pieces. It's too much i think, mesti tak habis guna but then blame it to Aizat. Beria sangat nak beli yang banyak pieces. Hehe
d) Napkins : Checked. Got 12 pieces from Anakku. This one being requested by my mom sebab nanti during my maternity dia akan jaga, so dia nak guna untuk bedung baby nanti.
Nursery :
a) Baby cot : Not checked.
b) Comforters, Pillow & Bolsters : Checked. Sponsored by mother-in-law
c) Baby bag : Checked. This one is used during the emergency. You have to put some of the baby clothes, toiletries, pampers which will be used after you giving birth. ( normally masa dekat hospital)
d) Mosquito net : Checked
Bathing & Grooming :
a) Bath Tub : Cheked
b) Toiletries ( Baby Bath/ Baby Oil/ Lotion/ Baby Powder / Minyak Yuyi) : Checked. All in small size, Johnson & Johnson
c) Bath Towels : Checked. 3 sets
d) Baby comb / brush : Not checked
e) Cotton buds : Not checked
f) Baby Nail Clipper : Not checked
Feeding :
a) Feeding bottle and teats : Checked. 4 bottles. Different in size
b) Teat & Bottle brush : Checked
c) Bottle cleanser : Not checked
d) Sterilizer : Not checked
Mommy's stuffs :
- Breast feeding
a) Breast pump - Checked. Medela brand
b) Breastmilk storage containers : Not checked
c) Nursing bras : Not checked
d) Maternity pad : Checked
e) Nursing/ Breast pads : Checked
f) Set bersalin : Checked. Nona Roguy
Okay, I think this is all for now. Maybe I will continue updating my check list until all are completely checked. Hopefully this is the best one.
Ok, bye :)
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