Mama loves you, baby.
Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat, 4 months 1 week 2 days old. :)
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
My precious
There are a million important things to do. But none as important as lying here next to you.
Mama loves you, baby.
Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat, 4 months 1 week 2 days old. :)
Mama loves you, baby.
Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat, 4 months 1 week 2 days old. :)
Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Anak itu Rezeki
Actually I have tonnes of works to do by now but seriously I really have something that I need to jot down here.
I had my lunch with few staffs just now. We were just discussing on random things until one of us said something which..I don't agree at all. Well, yea I know different people would have different opinion but still, I can't accept it.
The topic is about babies. They actually were asking about Aneeq, so yea there's a lot to share if you ask me. Hehe. But then when I was talking about Aneeq bla and bla suddenly this girl (one of my friends also la), which actually just got married about 2-3 months ago, said that she's not ready to conceive/to have her own baby yet. She said that she would try not to get pregnant or 'bunting pelamin' la kot, for reasons that she's not ready, financial condition not stable, worrying that the preparation of having own baby will cost her a lot and etc. I was just sat there, and said nothing. I really wondered what is actually on her mind when she said that. She don't like kids or what?
So I asked her, " How about your husband? Not ready too?"
She said YES. They both are not ready. Satu sebab diorang PJJ. Okayla aku cakap. PJJ adakah means kurang kasih sayang to each other? Weekend husband and wife, so? Tak da masalah pun pada aku personally. Dah la cakap macam tu, boleh pulak add on yang they are actually planning on having the so-called honeymoon for about a year , travelling, dating and you name it la before preparing themselves to have their own baby.
Seriously, I hate that statement. Kenapa kalau dah kawin, dah ada anak, tak boleh honeymoon? Takut tak ada privacy? Hell noooo! I was bunting pelamin jugak, PJJ jugak (masa tu) but it never make me and Aizat feel less on each other pun. In fact, we still went for midnight movies, dating dekat Queensbay tepi laut tu, macam-macam lagi yang dibuat all the while aku mengandung tu. We both were really excited masa nak check gender baby, nak tahu baby growth and etc. Aku in fact macam nak gila kot when I had spotting takut miscarriage apa semua. I know, itu pendapat aku..tapi perlu ka nak cakap yang bila ada baby hidup kita akan susah? Financial akan goyah? WTheck man.
Macam-macam pulak dia bagi alasan lepas tu. Mahal la bersalin dekat private. Nak kena spend almost 10k for that purpose only. Aku dah macam..kalau dah rasa itu beban, go and deliver dekat hospital la. Bukan mahal mana pun. Cakap taknak. Service government hospital out. Mana kau tau? Aku elok je, Alhamdulillah. Susah la bila deal dengan orang yang still nak stay in the denial state. Susaaaahhh.
Seriously, I am not regret for having my own son at early stage of my marriage. I feel blessed. I am proud of it. Aku rasa dihormati di sana sini. Aku rasa bangga dapat dukung anak aku ke mana-mana aku pergi. Aku rasa rezeki aku semakin melimpah ruah dengan adanya Aneeq. Aku bangga. Betul.
Aku teringat Ustaz Azhar pernah kata something like: Kalau plan to not have kids sebab takut tak cukup duit(miskin) tu tak boleh, sebab the Quran says "..kill not your children because of poverty'-We provide sustenance for you and for them-"[6:151].
"..Kamilah yang memberi rezeki kepadamu dan kepada mereka.."[6:151].
Of course, it is not that you're killing anyone, but I kinda thought it'd be nice to know about that matter/issue in this kind of perspective. Kan?
I reaaalllly wish that the girl will read this. Harap-harap.
I had my lunch with few staffs just now. We were just discussing on random things until one of us said something which..I don't agree at all. Well, yea I know different people would have different opinion but still, I can't accept it.
The topic is about babies. They actually were asking about Aneeq, so yea there's a lot to share if you ask me. Hehe. But then when I was talking about Aneeq bla and bla suddenly this girl (one of my friends also la), which actually just got married about 2-3 months ago, said that she's not ready to conceive/to have her own baby yet. She said that she would try not to get pregnant or 'bunting pelamin' la kot, for reasons that she's not ready, financial condition not stable, worrying that the preparation of having own baby will cost her a lot and etc. I was just sat there, and said nothing. I really wondered what is actually on her mind when she said that. She don't like kids or what?
So I asked her, " How about your husband? Not ready too?"
She said YES. They both are not ready. Satu sebab diorang PJJ. Okayla aku cakap. PJJ adakah means kurang kasih sayang to each other? Weekend husband and wife, so? Tak da masalah pun pada aku personally. Dah la cakap macam tu, boleh pulak add on yang they are actually planning on having the so-called honeymoon for about a year , travelling, dating and you name it la before preparing themselves to have their own baby.
Seriously, I hate that statement. Kenapa kalau dah kawin, dah ada anak, tak boleh honeymoon? Takut tak ada privacy? Hell noooo! I was bunting pelamin jugak, PJJ jugak (masa tu) but it never make me and Aizat feel less on each other pun. In fact, we still went for midnight movies, dating dekat Queensbay tepi laut tu, macam-macam lagi yang dibuat all the while aku mengandung tu. We both were really excited masa nak check gender baby, nak tahu baby growth and etc. Aku in fact macam nak gila kot when I had spotting takut miscarriage apa semua. I know, itu pendapat aku..tapi perlu ka nak cakap yang bila ada baby hidup kita akan susah? Financial akan goyah? WTheck man.
Macam-macam pulak dia bagi alasan lepas tu. Mahal la bersalin dekat private. Nak kena spend almost 10k for that purpose only. Aku dah macam..kalau dah rasa itu beban, go and deliver dekat hospital la. Bukan mahal mana pun. Cakap taknak. Service government hospital out. Mana kau tau? Aku elok je, Alhamdulillah. Susah la bila deal dengan orang yang still nak stay in the denial state. Susaaaahhh.
Seriously, I am not regret for having my own son at early stage of my marriage. I feel blessed. I am proud of it. Aku rasa dihormati di sana sini. Aku rasa bangga dapat dukung anak aku ke mana-mana aku pergi. Aku rasa rezeki aku semakin melimpah ruah dengan adanya Aneeq. Aku bangga. Betul.
Aku teringat Ustaz Azhar pernah kata something like: Kalau plan to not have kids sebab takut tak cukup duit(miskin) tu tak boleh, sebab the Quran says "..kill not your children because of poverty'-We provide sustenance for you and for them-"[6:151].
"..Kamilah yang memberi rezeki kepadamu dan kepada mereka.."[6:151].
Of course, it is not that you're killing anyone, but I kinda thought it'd be nice to know about that matter/issue in this kind of perspective. Kan?
I reaaalllly wish that the girl will read this. Harap-harap.
Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Random
Since I have a bit of free time, might as well I jot something down, even though they are random and there's really nothing on my mind right now.
Thinking back, during my early years in this profession, I did overtime 5-6 times per month at least which was quite normal to me( even though I can't claim on the OT for reason of executives are not allowed to claim on OT, like what the heck I have tonnes of work to do so I have to -__-). It didn't affect me much, even socially. Mother always wondered how can I still be energetic most of the time. I still don't know how I did it. I was not yet married at that time. Must be because of I'm living with my sister in Penang, nothing much I can do when I get back home kot.
Nowadays, I am so sick of it. The funny thing is, it is less busy now since I've moved up the career ladder and changed work place. I think it is because of being a working mother, I have to fetch Aneeq and then back to home do the house chores, cook for dinner, have some quality time with husband and Aneeq so I just feel like, stay back in the office after working hours is just a waste of time. Hehe
I still remember, about 4 months after I started working, I really enjoyed the responsibilty. I was like a SuperWoman. One day, I was doing work all by myself, no one helped me even though there were tonnes to do. I didn't ask for help, because to me, I don't need to, if they were nice enough, they would help me because I always helped them. Karma tells me I should get back what I give.
So, nobody helped me. But my hard work didn't go unnoticed. My boss saw my struggle, so he gathered us in a room, and he questioned them one by one, what they were doing, when they saw me working so hard.
At last, I kindly defended them, I said, "It's not their fault, Boss, I was the one who didn't ask for help."
My boss stood there, quiet, then he said clearly, "This is the kind of friend you want to keep for the rest of your life."
Chewaaahh...!
This boss was known to be as one of the most fierce/ most strict around. Since that day, he was always so nice to me. That day, he even gave me an hour off to freshen up and scolded my staff for burdening me with even the tiniest thing.
But then, sekarang ni..Tak kuasa aku nak tolong orang yang tak tolong aku. I know it's bad lah, tak boleh lah nak revenge revenge kan, but enough bullying me! Boss dekat sini tengok on paper je pun, bukan dia fikir kita buat kerja macam mana..as long as the work is settle within our LOS ( level of service). Boss baru ni agak relax jugak kadang-kadang but then quite pushy when it comes to something that urgent. Normal la tu kan, bila dah urgent baru nak kalut. Hehe. But seriously, I kinda like this new place..no stress, happy, convenient dan dekat dengan rumah babysitter Aneeq dan rumah aku sendiri. 15 minit je dari rumah -> rumah pengasuh Aneeq -> tempat kerja. Syukur-syukur. Hehe.
I've worked in a multiracial environment before, and never in my life that I felt that I was being looked down at. In fact, I still keep in touch with my Chinese/ Indian/ Malay/friends from my previous workplace. And, we still hate the same Chinese/ Indian/ Malay, not because of his/ her race, but because of the attitude. Kalau dah lazy, kerja tah apa-apa, berlagak pulak tu, mestilah mazmumah dan patut dibenci kan...dan bagi aku it is not about the race. Kena cermin diri balik, how good we are to condemn people..before we start condemning other people, look at ourselves..bagus kah kita?
Perhaps people look down on you not because you are a Malay, but because of your mentality or attitude or your behaviour, have you ever thought about that?
The boss who defended me (as told above) was an Chinese oldman (kekekeke). The colleagues who didn't help me (as told above) were Chinese/ Indian/ Malay.
Buktikan yang kita boleh, bukan stuck di zon selesa. Takde kena mengena dengan bangsa, unless you are indeed a racist.
To me, working in a multiracial environment is better, because indirectly, I would feel a sense of responsibility not to embarrass my race/ religion. Jadi, kita pun become a better person.
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Haha! Aku ni lagi laa..
My zon selesa tetap di Pandan Indah. I tell you to get out from your comfort zone, but I myself insist to return to my comfort zone. (Peace!)
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Oh, well.
Aku sekarang memang dah tak suka kerja susah-susah. Pegi kerja pukul 8pagi balik pukul 5petang. Thats it. Ambil Aneeq dari babysitter, balik rumah penyek-penyek Aneeq kejap, and if Aneeq mood baik boleh la terus start masak kalau tak okay kena layan dia sampai dia tidur. Malam lepas Maghrib la baru start masak jawabnya. And being me, after getting married and have my own son, aku sangat rajin masak. I even asked Aizat not to worry on what to eat for dinner sebab I will make it done cuma kadang-kadang aku serabut jugak nak masak apa pastu put the blame on Aizat sebab dia jenis tak kisah nak makan apa. Hahaha.
Oh my life is so good to me. Thank you. Terima kasih Tuhan. Alhamdulillah. :)
Thinking back, during my early years in this profession, I did overtime 5-6 times per month at least which was quite normal to me( even though I can't claim on the OT for reason of executives are not allowed to claim on OT, like what the heck I have tonnes of work to do so I have to -__-). It didn't affect me much, even socially. Mother always wondered how can I still be energetic most of the time. I still don't know how I did it. I was not yet married at that time. Must be because of I'm living with my sister in Penang, nothing much I can do when I get back home kot.
Nowadays, I am so sick of it. The funny thing is, it is less busy now since I've moved up the career ladder and changed work place. I think it is because of being a working mother, I have to fetch Aneeq and then back to home do the house chores, cook for dinner, have some quality time with husband and Aneeq so I just feel like, stay back in the office after working hours is just a waste of time. Hehe
I still remember, about 4 months after I started working, I really enjoyed the responsibilty. I was like a SuperWoman. One day, I was doing work all by myself, no one helped me even though there were tonnes to do. I didn't ask for help, because to me, I don't need to, if they were nice enough, they would help me because I always helped them. Karma tells me I should get back what I give.
So, nobody helped me. But my hard work didn't go unnoticed. My boss saw my struggle, so he gathered us in a room, and he questioned them one by one, what they were doing, when they saw me working so hard.
At last, I kindly defended them, I said, "It's not their fault, Boss, I was the one who didn't ask for help."
My boss stood there, quiet, then he said clearly, "This is the kind of friend you want to keep for the rest of your life."
Chewaaahh...!
This boss was known to be as one of the most fierce/ most strict around. Since that day, he was always so nice to me. That day, he even gave me an hour off to freshen up and scolded my staff for burdening me with even the tiniest thing.
But then, sekarang ni..Tak kuasa aku nak tolong orang yang tak tolong aku. I know it's bad lah, tak boleh lah nak revenge revenge kan, but enough bullying me! Boss dekat sini tengok on paper je pun, bukan dia fikir kita buat kerja macam mana..as long as the work is settle within our LOS ( level of service). Boss baru ni agak relax jugak kadang-kadang but then quite pushy when it comes to something that urgent. Normal la tu kan, bila dah urgent baru nak kalut. Hehe. But seriously, I kinda like this new place..no stress, happy, convenient dan dekat dengan rumah babysitter Aneeq dan rumah aku sendiri. 15 minit je dari rumah -> rumah pengasuh Aneeq -> tempat kerja. Syukur-syukur. Hehe.
I've worked in a multiracial environment before, and never in my life that I felt that I was being looked down at. In fact, I still keep in touch with my Chinese/ Indian/ Malay/friends from my previous workplace. And, we still hate the same Chinese/ Indian/ Malay, not because of his/ her race, but because of the attitude. Kalau dah lazy, kerja tah apa-apa, berlagak pulak tu, mestilah mazmumah dan patut dibenci kan...dan bagi aku it is not about the race. Kena cermin diri balik, how good we are to condemn people..before we start condemning other people, look at ourselves..bagus kah kita?
Perhaps people look down on you not because you are a Malay, but because of your mentality or attitude or your behaviour, have you ever thought about that?
The boss who defended me (as told above) was an Chinese oldman (kekekeke). The colleagues who didn't help me (as told above) were Chinese/ Indian/ Malay.
Buktikan yang kita boleh, bukan stuck di zon selesa. Takde kena mengena dengan bangsa, unless you are indeed a racist.
To me, working in a multiracial environment is better, because indirectly, I would feel a sense of responsibility not to embarrass my race/ religion. Jadi, kita pun become a better person.
-----
Haha! Aku ni lagi laa..
My zon selesa tetap di Pandan Indah. I tell you to get out from your comfort zone, but I myself insist to return to my comfort zone. (Peace!)
-----
Oh, well.
Aku sekarang memang dah tak suka kerja susah-susah. Pegi kerja pukul 8pagi balik pukul 5petang. Thats it. Ambil Aneeq dari babysitter, balik rumah penyek-penyek Aneeq kejap, and if Aneeq mood baik boleh la terus start masak kalau tak okay kena layan dia sampai dia tidur. Malam lepas Maghrib la baru start masak jawabnya. And being me, after getting married and have my own son, aku sangat rajin masak. I even asked Aizat not to worry on what to eat for dinner sebab I will make it done cuma kadang-kadang aku serabut jugak nak masak apa pastu put the blame on Aizat sebab dia jenis tak kisah nak makan apa. Hahaha.
Oh my life is so good to me. Thank you. Terima kasih Tuhan. Alhamdulillah. :)
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
My real birth experience. Finally! :)
I wanted to write and to share my real experience during my delivery process 3 months ago. I wanted to write about what had happened during the labor and etc. But seriously when I started to write on that thing, at that point of time I feel scared. Scared of remembering of what had happened on that day. I should say..it was the scariest thing ever..that happened in my life.
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But then, seeing Aneeq who turns 3 months yesterday and healthy (Alhamdulillah), I decided to write my normal delivery process since it was the greatest experience for myself even though it was seriously scary..so that when I'm about to give birth to Aneeq's future siblings ( not sure when hehe) I can refer to this, at least it can give me strength or a view or a self confidence or you name it or whatever. Hushh
Ok, back to the topic. To cut the story short, actually during my 7 months of pregnancy, the doctor told me that I had been suspected to have diabetic problem since my sugar reading at that time was quite high. So whether I like it or not, I have to deliver based on my due date. CAN'T be later than that. Which means, if tak deliver by 16Nov, aku akan di-induce untuk rasa sakit bersalin. Force delivery. Sakit, tahu? And, since then I always have this on my mind, and it scares me a lot. Seriously.
Everything went well and I had applied for maternity leave a week before the due date. I hope that and I keep on praying that I WILL delivered within that week, at least no force delivery, no induce and etc. Biar sakit semulajadi. Unfortunately, I feel nothing. Boleh pergi shopping barang baby lagi tu..
So hari yang ditakuti sampai juga. Hari Jumaat, 16hb November 2012. I was scheduled to get induced at early in the morning after the CTG ( checking on the baby's heart beat) and do the VE. ( vaginal examination). I hate VE. You can search it in the internet for further info. :). After all done, the MO ( medical doctor, not the houseman) which is a very gentle lady put something like a pill, macam panadol pil tu..she put it into my miss V. It didn't hurt me at all. VE lagi sakit kot. Then. aku ditahan wad for their observation. Apa yang nurse bagitau masa lepas aku kena induced tu is that normally for those who get induced will get their 2nd or 3rd induced baru boleh beranak. So I was like..err okay..I have to stay in the ward for 3 days kot if still tak deliver with the 1st induce. Dalam hati macam..pasrah je lah kan..
I have a feeling that sure aku akan diinduce untuk kali kedua since after the 1st one, I feel nothing at all. At all. Dari pukul 7.30pagi until 2pm..checking on VE bukaan cuma 1cm. Aku lagi la, ha..1cm? Tak sakit pun? -___-
Aizat and my whole family were really worried at that time. They keep on calling me asking about my condition. And being me, aku memang tak reti duduk diam kan. I was so anxious I could not sit still. I tossed and turned, I sat, I walked around, I read baby books. Family was not allowed to visit so I was all alone. Huhu. Luckily the room was okay, got air conditioner and so convenient. I just surfing the internet about delivery prosess and recite the Surah Maryam using my tablet so yeah I was not that bored,I should say.
So there it goes..I still feel nothing so I went to bed to have rest. But then..I still remember, it was 4am in the morning..I feel hot suddenly and wet. I looked at my pants, it was wet all over. So first thing came out from my mind is that my water bag is leaking. I push the button near my bed and called the nurse. She came and checking my temperature and gave me a new set of clothes. She asked me to change and quickly come to the checking room to do the VE again. At that time it was only 2cm dilated. The doctor ( houseman) told me that if by 6.30am the result is still the same, I will get my 2nd induced. The thing is that, I still feel nothing and yeah I was so redha at that time if that the only choice that I have.
Soon after that, I checked again and yeah got discharge, fresh blood but not that heavy. I went back to bed and sleep.
Tak lama lepas tu, tetiba aku rasa tak selesa. Sakit perut. Memulas-mulas. Bukan nak membuang. Its a no no. It happened every 15 minutes. I looked at my watch it was about 5.45am. Aku rasa sakit sangat. Sangat-sangat. Parents are allowed to visit at 6am so dalam masa sakit tu Aizat and my mother in law came in. I cried to Aizat, and he hold my hands dan berzikir dekat telinga aku. My mom in law on the other hand, buat air milo untuk beri tenaga untuk bersalin nanti. Based on her view at that time, aku memang akan bersalin pagi tu jugak. She brought so-called 'Air Selusuh' and asked me to drink it. Tak banyak pun aku minum. Sekadar sesudu, sebab rasa dia..ermmmmmmmm mestila tak sedap. Huhu..
It was 630am, Aizat and mom in law kena keluar wad. Masa melawat dah habis..aku menangis tak nak diorang tinggalkan aku. The nurse called me to do the VE again while me at that time I can't even stand still. Aizat pimpin aku ke bilik pemeriksaan. Tapi guard perempuan tu bising-bising suruh Aizat keluar. So Aizat terpaksa tinggalkan aku kat situ. Aku dah sakit sangat, macam dah 5 minit sekali. Nurse tengok aku dah pucat, she asked the doctor to bring me in first sebab masa tu ramai yang tengah tunggu untuk diseluk. Nurse pimpin aku masuk dan MO yang check not the houseman pagi tadi tu. Mujurlah. Doctor was surprised since after her checking she told to the nurse to bring me to the labor room as soon as possible. It was already 5cm approaching 6cm dilated.
Nurse dah kelam kabut cari wheel chair. Guard yang macam hampeh tadi pun kalut cari Aizat. Aizat was not there. Aizat di surau, solat Subuh and luckily my mom in law was there. She then quickly called Aizat, ( dia tengah baca Surah Maryam masa tu), bagitau yang aku dah ditolak masuk labor room dah. Aizat was so cuak, dia pun kelam kabut jugak. -___-
It was 7.30am but Aizat still not coming. The contractions were even worse. I just don't know what to do, the nurse came in, change my clothes and asked for baby's stuffs. Houseman came in, cucuk jarum dekat tangan but she FAILED. Dia tersilap cari urat tangan which ended bidan yang buat lastly. Cause me lebam dan padan muka houseman tu kena marah. Orang dah sakit, dia sakitkan lagi. Huhu
Aizat finally came. He saw me with pain, dia hampir menangis. Sakitnya Allah saja yang tahu. Aku dah tak tahan dengan sakit tu so I asked the houseman is there any painkiller that I can take because I can't hold it any longer. Nak meneran sangat-sangat dah. Masa tu bukaan dah 7cm, 8.30am. Houseman tu suruh aku sedut gas yang ada kat sebelah aku untuk kurangkan rasa sakit. Aku sedut banyaaaaaakkkk..but tak kurang pun sakit. In fact aku rasa MENGANTUK. Serius menyesal.
MO datang dalam pukul 9pagi. Masa tu ada houseman bangang mana ntah main seluk-seluk aku pastu buat muka confius, ' eh ni macam dah 8cm..eh macam 7cm lagi..' Aku tengah contraction kot. Rasa macam nak tendang je. Aizat was there, and I know he was mad at that time seeing they did that to me. Then MO datang untuk double check and he said that it's already 9cm. He asked me to PUSH. Okay, I was like..aku dah boleh beranak ke???' Sakit sangatttttt
Aku push dalam 3 kali tapi aku dah lali sangat. The doctor asked Aizat keluar dulu, and I know at that time mesti dah masuk kes kritikal. Bidan bisikkan dekat telinga asked me to try harder since the baby's head can be seen but I have no enough energy to push him out. Masa tu dalam samar-samar I heard his heart beat was beating so damn fast, Ya Allah aku tak nak jadi fetal distress. Aku rasa doctor tu gunting bahagian miss V aku but I don't know for what purpose. Doctor then told me..'Puan, just one push..cuba puan..this is the only way we can do for you. The rest is all up to you. Push kuat-kuat'. Masa tu dengan houseman, nurse, bidan, semua macam bersorak bagi semangat dah macam fun fair pun ada. Diorang mintak aku push sekuat hati aku, so dengan kelalian yang sangat-sangat, aku tarik nafas dalam-dalam and hembus sambil meneran. And then I heard the doctor said, "Good job..one more push. Baby tersekat dekat bahu. I need one more.". Aku push lagi then I feel something came out from me and then Aneeq's first scream loudly heard. I was so blessed. I looked at the watch that hanging on the wall..it was 9.31am. I just give birth to another human being at 9.31am, 17th November 2012. Happy tapi aku terlalu lali dan penat untuk melompat kegembiraan..:)
Lepas settle semua, I was informed that they wanted to check Aneeq's condition since the delivery was assisted with vacuum method. So kesan nya Aneeq dimasukkan ke NICU for 3 days and yes..I was so emotional at that time..menangis je aku kat rumah rindu Aneeq. After that 3 days, bawak Aneeq balik rumah the next day kena warded lagi because of the jaundice! Sedih sangat. Luckily sehari je warded lepas tu we both just monitor in KK. Alhamdulillah Aneeq jaundice tak lama, he was okay and healthy since then until now. Syukur sangat-sangat.
Pengalaman bersalin ni akan jadi something that would be the most scariest thing but then..when I think about it again..seeing Aneeq in my life I have to say that it was the most wonderful moment ever. I wanna do it again, InshaAllah sekiranya diberi keizinan dan dipanjangkan umur..Terima kasih Allah..YOU gave me one of your million miracles in my life. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat.
:)
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But then, seeing Aneeq who turns 3 months yesterday and healthy (Alhamdulillah), I decided to write my normal delivery process since it was the greatest experience for myself even though it was seriously scary..so that when I'm about to give birth to Aneeq's future siblings ( not sure when hehe) I can refer to this, at least it can give me strength or a view or a self confidence or you name it or whatever. Hushh
Ok, back to the topic. To cut the story short, actually during my 7 months of pregnancy, the doctor told me that I had been suspected to have diabetic problem since my sugar reading at that time was quite high. So whether I like it or not, I have to deliver based on my due date. CAN'T be later than that. Which means, if tak deliver by 16Nov, aku akan di-induce untuk rasa sakit bersalin. Force delivery. Sakit, tahu? And, since then I always have this on my mind, and it scares me a lot. Seriously.
Everything went well and I had applied for maternity leave a week before the due date. I hope that and I keep on praying that I WILL delivered within that week, at least no force delivery, no induce and etc. Biar sakit semulajadi. Unfortunately, I feel nothing. Boleh pergi shopping barang baby lagi tu..
So hari yang ditakuti sampai juga. Hari Jumaat, 16hb November 2012. I was scheduled to get induced at early in the morning after the CTG ( checking on the baby's heart beat) and do the VE. ( vaginal examination). I hate VE. You can search it in the internet for further info. :). After all done, the MO ( medical doctor, not the houseman) which is a very gentle lady put something like a pill, macam panadol pil tu..she put it into my miss V. It didn't hurt me at all. VE lagi sakit kot. Then. aku ditahan wad for their observation. Apa yang nurse bagitau masa lepas aku kena induced tu is that normally for those who get induced will get their 2nd or 3rd induced baru boleh beranak. So I was like..err okay..I have to stay in the ward for 3 days kot if still tak deliver with the 1st induce. Dalam hati macam..pasrah je lah kan..
I have a feeling that sure aku akan diinduce untuk kali kedua since after the 1st one, I feel nothing at all. At all. Dari pukul 7.30pagi until 2pm..checking on VE bukaan cuma 1cm. Aku lagi la, ha..1cm? Tak sakit pun? -___-
Aizat and my whole family were really worried at that time. They keep on calling me asking about my condition. And being me, aku memang tak reti duduk diam kan. I was so anxious I could not sit still. I tossed and turned, I sat, I walked around, I read baby books. Family was not allowed to visit so I was all alone. Huhu. Luckily the room was okay, got air conditioner and so convenient. I just surfing the internet about delivery prosess and recite the Surah Maryam using my tablet so yeah I was not that bored,I should say.
So there it goes..I still feel nothing so I went to bed to have rest. But then..I still remember, it was 4am in the morning..I feel hot suddenly and wet. I looked at my pants, it was wet all over. So first thing came out from my mind is that my water bag is leaking. I push the button near my bed and called the nurse. She came and checking my temperature and gave me a new set of clothes. She asked me to change and quickly come to the checking room to do the VE again. At that time it was only 2cm dilated. The doctor ( houseman) told me that if by 6.30am the result is still the same, I will get my 2nd induced. The thing is that, I still feel nothing and yeah I was so redha at that time if that the only choice that I have.
Soon after that, I checked again and yeah got discharge, fresh blood but not that heavy. I went back to bed and sleep.
Tak lama lepas tu, tetiba aku rasa tak selesa. Sakit perut. Memulas-mulas. Bukan nak membuang. Its a no no. It happened every 15 minutes. I looked at my watch it was about 5.45am. Aku rasa sakit sangat. Sangat-sangat. Parents are allowed to visit at 6am so dalam masa sakit tu Aizat and my mother in law came in. I cried to Aizat, and he hold my hands dan berzikir dekat telinga aku. My mom in law on the other hand, buat air milo untuk beri tenaga untuk bersalin nanti. Based on her view at that time, aku memang akan bersalin pagi tu jugak. She brought so-called 'Air Selusuh' and asked me to drink it. Tak banyak pun aku minum. Sekadar sesudu, sebab rasa dia..ermmmmmmmm mestila tak sedap. Huhu..
It was 630am, Aizat and mom in law kena keluar wad. Masa melawat dah habis..aku menangis tak nak diorang tinggalkan aku. The nurse called me to do the VE again while me at that time I can't even stand still. Aizat pimpin aku ke bilik pemeriksaan. Tapi guard perempuan tu bising-bising suruh Aizat keluar. So Aizat terpaksa tinggalkan aku kat situ. Aku dah sakit sangat, macam dah 5 minit sekali. Nurse tengok aku dah pucat, she asked the doctor to bring me in first sebab masa tu ramai yang tengah tunggu untuk diseluk. Nurse pimpin aku masuk dan MO yang check not the houseman pagi tadi tu. Mujurlah. Doctor was surprised since after her checking she told to the nurse to bring me to the labor room as soon as possible. It was already 5cm approaching 6cm dilated.
Nurse dah kelam kabut cari wheel chair. Guard yang macam hampeh tadi pun kalut cari Aizat. Aizat was not there. Aizat di surau, solat Subuh and luckily my mom in law was there. She then quickly called Aizat, ( dia tengah baca Surah Maryam masa tu), bagitau yang aku dah ditolak masuk labor room dah. Aizat was so cuak, dia pun kelam kabut jugak. -___-
It was 7.30am but Aizat still not coming. The contractions were even worse. I just don't know what to do, the nurse came in, change my clothes and asked for baby's stuffs. Houseman came in, cucuk jarum dekat tangan but she FAILED. Dia tersilap cari urat tangan which ended bidan yang buat lastly. Cause me lebam dan padan muka houseman tu kena marah. Orang dah sakit, dia sakitkan lagi. Huhu
Aizat finally came. He saw me with pain, dia hampir menangis. Sakitnya Allah saja yang tahu. Aku dah tak tahan dengan sakit tu so I asked the houseman is there any painkiller that I can take because I can't hold it any longer. Nak meneran sangat-sangat dah. Masa tu bukaan dah 7cm, 8.30am. Houseman tu suruh aku sedut gas yang ada kat sebelah aku untuk kurangkan rasa sakit. Aku sedut banyaaaaaakkkk..but tak kurang pun sakit. In fact aku rasa MENGANTUK. Serius menyesal.
MO datang dalam pukul 9pagi. Masa tu ada houseman bangang mana ntah main seluk-seluk aku pastu buat muka confius, ' eh ni macam dah 8cm..eh macam 7cm lagi..' Aku tengah contraction kot. Rasa macam nak tendang je. Aizat was there, and I know he was mad at that time seeing they did that to me. Then MO datang untuk double check and he said that it's already 9cm. He asked me to PUSH. Okay, I was like..aku dah boleh beranak ke???' Sakit sangatttttt
Aku push dalam 3 kali tapi aku dah lali sangat. The doctor asked Aizat keluar dulu, and I know at that time mesti dah masuk kes kritikal. Bidan bisikkan dekat telinga asked me to try harder since the baby's head can be seen but I have no enough energy to push him out. Masa tu dalam samar-samar I heard his heart beat was beating so damn fast, Ya Allah aku tak nak jadi fetal distress. Aku rasa doctor tu gunting bahagian miss V aku but I don't know for what purpose. Doctor then told me..'Puan, just one push..cuba puan..this is the only way we can do for you. The rest is all up to you. Push kuat-kuat'. Masa tu dengan houseman, nurse, bidan, semua macam bersorak bagi semangat dah macam fun fair pun ada. Diorang mintak aku push sekuat hati aku, so dengan kelalian yang sangat-sangat, aku tarik nafas dalam-dalam and hembus sambil meneran. And then I heard the doctor said, "Good job..one more push. Baby tersekat dekat bahu. I need one more.". Aku push lagi then I feel something came out from me and then Aneeq's first scream loudly heard. I was so blessed. I looked at the watch that hanging on the wall..it was 9.31am. I just give birth to another human being at 9.31am, 17th November 2012. Happy tapi aku terlalu lali dan penat untuk melompat kegembiraan..:)
Lepas settle semua, I was informed that they wanted to check Aneeq's condition since the delivery was assisted with vacuum method. So kesan nya Aneeq dimasukkan ke NICU for 3 days and yes..I was so emotional at that time..menangis je aku kat rumah rindu Aneeq. After that 3 days, bawak Aneeq balik rumah the next day kena warded lagi because of the jaundice! Sedih sangat. Luckily sehari je warded lepas tu we both just monitor in KK. Alhamdulillah Aneeq jaundice tak lama, he was okay and healthy since then until now. Syukur sangat-sangat.
Pengalaman bersalin ni akan jadi something that would be the most scariest thing but then..when I think about it again..seeing Aneeq in my life I have to say that it was the most wonderful moment ever. I wanna do it again, InshaAllah sekiranya diberi keizinan dan dipanjangkan umur..Terima kasih Allah..YOU gave me one of your million miracles in my life. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat.
:)
Friday, January 25, 2013
Susu ibu dan Aneeq :)
Sejak ada Aneeq ni, masa terluang aku semakin kurang. Masa aku banyak dihabiskan dengan melenyek-lenyek Aneeq sampai lunyai. Best betul ada anak ni, penat macam mana pun tengok Aneeq penat mesti cepat hilang. Syukurla, nikmat Allah bagi. :)
Aneeq sekarang dah makin nakal. Suka ajak orang bersembang. Kadang-kadang aku layankan aje, dia pun kalau dah orang melayan tu bercakap tak berhenti even orang tak faham sepatah pun. Dah pandai senyum dan gelak. Tahu tak, it is such a great feeling when you bf your baby lepas tu dia tengok muka kita, bertentang mata and then dia senyum sampai nampak gusi yang takda gigi tu. Geram tak? :) Having an eye contact with your baby while breastfeeding is something that..that I can't explain. Feel it yourself :)
I was morally down bila aku mengalami kemuruduman susu lepas demam hari tu, aku agak down dan stress sebenarnya. I always put the blame on me, I feel damn bad because I can't produce enough milk to Aneeq. Seriously sedih, susu aku hanya cukup-cukup untuk bagi Aneeq kenyang, aku tak boleh buat stok susu pun.
So we try another alternative to avoid things become even worse nanti. Aku tak mahu stay in a state of denial, just because of I want to fully bf Aneeq, hak kekenyangan Aneeq aku tak ambil kira. Sebab, yes we do have choices young lady. I have to think of something that can help me untuk kenyangkan Aneeq, which is something that I'm afraid of before ; Formula milk (fm). Aku terpaksa feed Aneeq dengan fm masa susu merudum hari tu sebab I want to teach him to taste it, in case kalau susu aku bekalkan tak cukup memenuhi kehendak Aneeq jadi memang dia terpaksa jugakla hadap susu fm ni. I cried watching Aneeq struggling and forcing himself masa aku suapkan botol dekat dia. Of course he refused to get feed, sebab susu ibu adalah yang terbaik kan. Tapi aku bisikkan dekat Aneeq just to try that first, it is not that I'm going to feed him with fm..but I have to..just in case. Aneeq cuba hadam dan telan, dan dia berjaya even terpaksa.
Seeing Aneeq macam terseksa sangat dengan fm, aku bertekad untuk try harder to increase my production milk. Aku consume macam-macam and I read a lottt just to know the method on how to increase the production. I even posted it in the FB, seeing that a lot of my friends now are a mother, maybe they can help me by sharing their experience. Kaedah yang paling berhasil yang aku cuba are 2 types. Satu, aku consume banyak lobak putih. Buat sayur cair letak ikan rebus..memang sedap. Lagi satu buat POWERPUMPING. Oh seriously this method helped me even better! Masa awal-awal buat, aku dapat pam angin je. Amount yang dapat just 1oz-1.5oz for 2 nights. Lepas dari tu dah mula bertambah dan bertambah and now already back to normal. Aku syukur sangat-sangat. Sekarang dah start kerja pun aku masih boleh bekalkan Aneeq dengan susu aku dekat babysitter. Alhamdulillah jugak, my work place is so convenient to do the pumping works during working hours. Aku ada buat jadual pumping setiap hari so bila siang even Aneeq tak da dengan aku pun, aku still boleh pump susu dan simpan susu untuk esok. Bila malam aku memang direct feed Aneeq je. That's how I do recently, dan Alhamdulillah production milk memang macam tu, so-so tapi Alhamdulillah masih cukup. Azam nak susukan Aneeq at least sampai 6 bulan harap-harap dimudahkan Allah. Dan, kalau boleh biarlah sampai dia umur 2 tahun. It's a bonus to me!
Kehidupan di KL tak jauh beza dengan life dekat Penang. But it is more happier since Hubby and little baby ada bersama. We are not that rich, but we are just happy of what we have right now. Doakan Aneeq cepat besar, dia pun dah 5.3kg at 2 months plus. Happy sangat tengok Aneeq membesar depan mata. Cuma bab Aneeq malam-malam tidur pukul 4 pagi tu yang meruntun jiwa tu. Hehe. Kadang-kadang kena gilir dengan Aizat, tapi aku dah faham macam mana nak tackle Aneeq. Time dia tidur, mak bapak haruslah tidur jugak. Time Aneeq jaga baru lah mak bapak berjaga dan masa tu la baru aku start buat kerja rumah. Hari Rabu lepas basuh kain dan basuh pinggan pukul 3 pagi yoo. heh, kau ade?
:)
Aneeq sekarang dah makin nakal. Suka ajak orang bersembang. Kadang-kadang aku layankan aje, dia pun kalau dah orang melayan tu bercakap tak berhenti even orang tak faham sepatah pun. Dah pandai senyum dan gelak. Tahu tak, it is such a great feeling when you bf your baby lepas tu dia tengok muka kita, bertentang mata and then dia senyum sampai nampak gusi yang takda gigi tu. Geram tak? :) Having an eye contact with your baby while breastfeeding is something that..that I can't explain. Feel it yourself :)
I was morally down bila aku mengalami kemuruduman susu lepas demam hari tu, aku agak down dan stress sebenarnya. I always put the blame on me, I feel damn bad because I can't produce enough milk to Aneeq. Seriously sedih, susu aku hanya cukup-cukup untuk bagi Aneeq kenyang, aku tak boleh buat stok susu pun.
So we try another alternative to avoid things become even worse nanti. Aku tak mahu stay in a state of denial, just because of I want to fully bf Aneeq, hak kekenyangan Aneeq aku tak ambil kira. Sebab, yes we do have choices young lady. I have to think of something that can help me untuk kenyangkan Aneeq, which is something that I'm afraid of before ; Formula milk (fm). Aku terpaksa feed Aneeq dengan fm masa susu merudum hari tu sebab I want to teach him to taste it, in case kalau susu aku bekalkan tak cukup memenuhi kehendak Aneeq jadi memang dia terpaksa jugakla hadap susu fm ni. I cried watching Aneeq struggling and forcing himself masa aku suapkan botol dekat dia. Of course he refused to get feed, sebab susu ibu adalah yang terbaik kan. Tapi aku bisikkan dekat Aneeq just to try that first, it is not that I'm going to feed him with fm..but I have to..just in case. Aneeq cuba hadam dan telan, dan dia berjaya even terpaksa.
Seeing Aneeq macam terseksa sangat dengan fm, aku bertekad untuk try harder to increase my production milk. Aku consume macam-macam and I read a lottt just to know the method on how to increase the production. I even posted it in the FB, seeing that a lot of my friends now are a mother, maybe they can help me by sharing their experience. Kaedah yang paling berhasil yang aku cuba are 2 types. Satu, aku consume banyak lobak putih. Buat sayur cair letak ikan rebus..memang sedap. Lagi satu buat POWERPUMPING. Oh seriously this method helped me even better! Masa awal-awal buat, aku dapat pam angin je. Amount yang dapat just 1oz-1.5oz for 2 nights. Lepas dari tu dah mula bertambah dan bertambah and now already back to normal. Aku syukur sangat-sangat. Sekarang dah start kerja pun aku masih boleh bekalkan Aneeq dengan susu aku dekat babysitter. Alhamdulillah jugak, my work place is so convenient to do the pumping works during working hours. Aku ada buat jadual pumping setiap hari so bila siang even Aneeq tak da dengan aku pun, aku still boleh pump susu dan simpan susu untuk esok. Bila malam aku memang direct feed Aneeq je. That's how I do recently, dan Alhamdulillah production milk memang macam tu, so-so tapi Alhamdulillah masih cukup. Azam nak susukan Aneeq at least sampai 6 bulan harap-harap dimudahkan Allah. Dan, kalau boleh biarlah sampai dia umur 2 tahun. It's a bonus to me!
Kehidupan di KL tak jauh beza dengan life dekat Penang. But it is more happier since Hubby and little baby ada bersama. We are not that rich, but we are just happy of what we have right now. Doakan Aneeq cepat besar, dia pun dah 5.3kg at 2 months plus. Happy sangat tengok Aneeq membesar depan mata. Cuma bab Aneeq malam-malam tidur pukul 4 pagi tu yang meruntun jiwa tu. Hehe. Kadang-kadang kena gilir dengan Aizat, tapi aku dah faham macam mana nak tackle Aneeq. Time dia tidur, mak bapak haruslah tidur jugak. Time Aneeq jaga baru lah mak bapak berjaga dan masa tu la baru aku start buat kerja rumah. Hari Rabu lepas basuh kain dan basuh pinggan pukul 3 pagi yoo. heh, kau ade?
:)
Friday, December 28, 2012
My new life :)
Alhamdulillah, Aqiqah Aneeq went smoothly last Tuesday. Penat lelah Aizat mencari kambing akhirnya berjaya juga..sedikit mahal, RM680 untuk seekor tak termasuk upah memasak. Quite a lot, tapi dah tanggungjawab parents untuk prepare semua tu selagi mampu, dan Alhamdulillah rezeki pun mencurah-curah since kehadiran Aneeq ni. Betul lah, setiap anak tu ada rezeki masing-masing..tak perlu takut kalau expenses akan jadi double or triple kalau dah ada anak, sebab Allah dah tentukan rezeki masing-masing. :) Dan sekarang Alhamdulillah..satu chapter dah selesai, but few more will come. Wish us luck :)
Offically today is my 40th day of confinement period. Which means, I have 4 days to go. Berpantang with beloved mother is one of the toughest thing in my life I should say. Banyak godaan dan rintangan yang datang sepanjang berpantang. Of course la foooood kan..mana boleh say no to all mom's cook, tapi aku ambik bau je lah since tak boleh nak hadap. Huhu. But the good thing is, my weight drop 11kgs for about a month. Yippee. Hopefully I can reach my pre-pregnancy weight which is about 8kgs more to go. Banyak tu..-___-
Well, I am now still give Aneeq a full breastfeeding. No added formula milk until to date. Syukurlah susu aku agak meriah since the first day delivery. Aku tak mengurut pun awal-awal pantang since I have the 3rd degree tear episiotomy so yea takut if jahitan tu terbuka. But luckily even masa tu tak mengurut lagi pun I still can breastfeed Aneeq sampai dia kenyang..susu pun sangat meriah. Alhamdulillah rezeki Aneeq sangat murah. Sekarang ni aku dah start buat stock susu untuk Aneeq bila aku dah masuk kerja nanti. Buat masa sekarang aku sekali pump hanya untuk 4oz je sebab boleh simpan dalam storage box yang mana kena bagi ada gap dalam storage tu sebab nanti bila simpan dalam fridge susu tu akan beku dan akan mengembang. Kalau sekali pump aku reach sampai 5-6oz aku akan simpan dalam second storage box. So far, dah almost 15 storage box aku dah simpan dalam fridge dan akan menambahkan koleksi nanti, InsyaAllah.
Susu stock ni actually boleh bertahan dalam suhu bilik about 4 hours only. Kalau kita simpan dalam ruangan sejuk fridge tu ia boleh stay until 7 days. Kalau dalam peti sejuk beku bahagian atas boleh bertahan 3-6 bulan. Tips lepas simpan stock susu ni, lepas pump jangan terus simpan dalam bahagian sejuk beku. Simpan di bahagian sejuk dulu. If in 5 days the storage milk still not used, then only can keep in the upper level, bahagian sejuk beku tu. Kalau dah cairkan susu tu, tak boleh bekukan balik, kena guna within 24hrs kot. Kalau tak silap la, ni pun info dapat dari bacaan google. Hehehe
Sekarang baru start ajar Aneeq minum susu aku guna botol. At first he was reluctant to use it. Asyik tolak dengan lidah. Tapi aku pujuk, masuk sikit-sikit dan so far alhamdulillah Aneeq mahu juga guna botol untuk minum susu. Kadang-kadang aku selang dengan direct breastfeed sebab nanti dia tak nak pulak puting aku nanti. Awal-awal tu aku cuba dengan botol BabyKiko and MAM, tapi Aneeq macam tak rela. So I decided to change to Tommee Tippee. Mujurla yang ni Aneeq boleh accept, so sekarang ni rasa lega jugak sebab satu masalah dah selesai. Even Aneeq still kena pujuk dulu baru dia rela nak guna botol, but in the end nanti sampai habis jugak satu botol dia hisap. Hehe. Good boy anak mama ni :)
So my next aim first sekali nak beli cooler bag untuk simpan susu kalau aku pump during working hours. Dekat office memang ada fridge, kalau boleh simpan situ je but to be safe beli je la cooler bag tu. Boleh tahan dari 12-24 jam tu. Stroller dah beli, which is cost us RM299. Aizat la berkenan sangat dengan stroller tu, macam mana nanti nak bawak balik ke KL pun tak tau la. Banyak kot barang! Huhu
Selama 40 hari aku berpantang dan menjaga Aneeq, aku bersyukur jugak sebab Aneeq tak banyak meragam. Dia jarang kembung perut dan tak pernah la Aneeq nangis sebab merap nak suruh orang dukung. Aneeq kalau dia terjaga dari tidur, dia tak immediate on siren bomba dia. Dia akan main sorang-sorang, kejap gelak, kejap tengok sana sini, lepas tu tangan tu gawang kanan kiri, tapi tak menangis. Aneeq akan on siren bomba yang kuat bila dia dah lapar. Semua orang dalam rumah bila dengar siren bomba Aneeq mesti dah faham yang dia dah lapar. Sebab aku tak biasakan Aneeq setiap masa kena dukung. Bila dia tak menangis, aku biar Aneeq main sorang-sorang but still I keep an eye on him. Kadang-kadang boleh tergelak tengok telatah dia. Alhamdulillah, Aneeq bijak dan tak pandai memerap. Anak lelaki mana boleh kuat merap kan..he has to be strong. Hehe. Ni tips aku baca dari satu link yang bos unit penang forward masa aku tengah pregnant dulu. Berhasil la jugak. Hehe
Aku insyaAllah akan start kerja in mid of Jan 2013. Maybe akan apply annual leave dalam 2,3 hari sebelum start kerja to actually adapt with the new environment. Ye la, ada orang baru kan..the schedule won't be the same as before lagi dah..aku kena start drive sendiri ke kerja dan tugasan menghantar dan ambil Aneeq dari babysitter aku akan uruskan. Babysitter tu aku dah booked since pregnant lagi. Mahal la jugak dia charge pun, tapi tak pa lah..tak sanggup nak hantar Aneeq ke nursery..macam paranoid tetiba. Hehe.
Aku akan bawak balik kereta aku ke KL nanti sebab senang nak bergerak. Aizat pun nak guna kereta dia juga nanti so to be fair masing-masing guna kereta sendiri. Tugasan aku la kot yang banyak sikit sebab kena uruskan Aneeq. Aizat balik kerja pukul 6, busuk-busuk nak sampai rumah pun maybe pukul 7. Lambat sangat. So aku pun volunteer la nak uruskan Aneeq sebab aku balik kerja awal, so dapat la masak dan do the house chores sementara tunggu Aizat balik. Hehe..See? Aku dah well-planned kan? Macam ibu yang berdedikasi je ye tak? Hehe
Well,this is the life that I've been dreaming of actually. I know it sounds easy, but the real thing it is not. I don't know how it will treat me later, but one thing for sure..I feel blessed for having this chance. Harap-harap next coming years nanti more good news will hit us. InsyaAllah, Amin! :)
Let's get it started bebeh!
Offically today is my 40th day of confinement period. Which means, I have 4 days to go. Berpantang with beloved mother is one of the toughest thing in my life I should say. Banyak godaan dan rintangan yang datang sepanjang berpantang. Of course la foooood kan..mana boleh say no to all mom's cook, tapi aku ambik bau je lah since tak boleh nak hadap. Huhu. But the good thing is, my weight drop 11kgs for about a month. Yippee. Hopefully I can reach my pre-pregnancy weight which is about 8kgs more to go. Banyak tu..-___-
Well, I am now still give Aneeq a full breastfeeding. No added formula milk until to date. Syukurlah susu aku agak meriah since the first day delivery. Aku tak mengurut pun awal-awal pantang since I have the 3rd degree tear episiotomy so yea takut if jahitan tu terbuka. But luckily even masa tu tak mengurut lagi pun I still can breastfeed Aneeq sampai dia kenyang..susu pun sangat meriah. Alhamdulillah rezeki Aneeq sangat murah. Sekarang ni aku dah start buat stock susu untuk Aneeq bila aku dah masuk kerja nanti. Buat masa sekarang aku sekali pump hanya untuk 4oz je sebab boleh simpan dalam storage box yang mana kena bagi ada gap dalam storage tu sebab nanti bila simpan dalam fridge susu tu akan beku dan akan mengembang. Kalau sekali pump aku reach sampai 5-6oz aku akan simpan dalam second storage box. So far, dah almost 15 storage box aku dah simpan dalam fridge dan akan menambahkan koleksi nanti, InsyaAllah.
Susu stock ni actually boleh bertahan dalam suhu bilik about 4 hours only. Kalau kita simpan dalam ruangan sejuk fridge tu ia boleh stay until 7 days. Kalau dalam peti sejuk beku bahagian atas boleh bertahan 3-6 bulan. Tips lepas simpan stock susu ni, lepas pump jangan terus simpan dalam bahagian sejuk beku. Simpan di bahagian sejuk dulu. If in 5 days the storage milk still not used, then only can keep in the upper level, bahagian sejuk beku tu. Kalau dah cairkan susu tu, tak boleh bekukan balik, kena guna within 24hrs kot. Kalau tak silap la, ni pun info dapat dari bacaan google. Hehehe
Sekarang baru start ajar Aneeq minum susu aku guna botol. At first he was reluctant to use it. Asyik tolak dengan lidah. Tapi aku pujuk, masuk sikit-sikit dan so far alhamdulillah Aneeq mahu juga guna botol untuk minum susu. Kadang-kadang aku selang dengan direct breastfeed sebab nanti dia tak nak pulak puting aku nanti. Awal-awal tu aku cuba dengan botol BabyKiko and MAM, tapi Aneeq macam tak rela. So I decided to change to Tommee Tippee. Mujurla yang ni Aneeq boleh accept, so sekarang ni rasa lega jugak sebab satu masalah dah selesai. Even Aneeq still kena pujuk dulu baru dia rela nak guna botol, but in the end nanti sampai habis jugak satu botol dia hisap. Hehe. Good boy anak mama ni :)
So my next aim first sekali nak beli cooler bag untuk simpan susu kalau aku pump during working hours. Dekat office memang ada fridge, kalau boleh simpan situ je but to be safe beli je la cooler bag tu. Boleh tahan dari 12-24 jam tu. Stroller dah beli, which is cost us RM299. Aizat la berkenan sangat dengan stroller tu, macam mana nanti nak bawak balik ke KL pun tak tau la. Banyak kot barang! Huhu
Selama 40 hari aku berpantang dan menjaga Aneeq, aku bersyukur jugak sebab Aneeq tak banyak meragam. Dia jarang kembung perut dan tak pernah la Aneeq nangis sebab merap nak suruh orang dukung. Aneeq kalau dia terjaga dari tidur, dia tak immediate on siren bomba dia. Dia akan main sorang-sorang, kejap gelak, kejap tengok sana sini, lepas tu tangan tu gawang kanan kiri, tapi tak menangis. Aneeq akan on siren bomba yang kuat bila dia dah lapar. Semua orang dalam rumah bila dengar siren bomba Aneeq mesti dah faham yang dia dah lapar. Sebab aku tak biasakan Aneeq setiap masa kena dukung. Bila dia tak menangis, aku biar Aneeq main sorang-sorang but still I keep an eye on him. Kadang-kadang boleh tergelak tengok telatah dia. Alhamdulillah, Aneeq bijak dan tak pandai memerap. Anak lelaki mana boleh kuat merap kan..he has to be strong. Hehe. Ni tips aku baca dari satu link yang bos unit penang forward masa aku tengah pregnant dulu. Berhasil la jugak. Hehe
Aku insyaAllah akan start kerja in mid of Jan 2013. Maybe akan apply annual leave dalam 2,3 hari sebelum start kerja to actually adapt with the new environment. Ye la, ada orang baru kan..the schedule won't be the same as before lagi dah..aku kena start drive sendiri ke kerja dan tugasan menghantar dan ambil Aneeq dari babysitter aku akan uruskan. Babysitter tu aku dah booked since pregnant lagi. Mahal la jugak dia charge pun, tapi tak pa lah..tak sanggup nak hantar Aneeq ke nursery..macam paranoid tetiba. Hehe.
Aku akan bawak balik kereta aku ke KL nanti sebab senang nak bergerak. Aizat pun nak guna kereta dia juga nanti so to be fair masing-masing guna kereta sendiri. Tugasan aku la kot yang banyak sikit sebab kena uruskan Aneeq. Aizat balik kerja pukul 6, busuk-busuk nak sampai rumah pun maybe pukul 7. Lambat sangat. So aku pun volunteer la nak uruskan Aneeq sebab aku balik kerja awal, so dapat la masak dan do the house chores sementara tunggu Aizat balik. Hehe..See? Aku dah well-planned kan? Macam ibu yang berdedikasi je ye tak? Hehe
Well,this is the life that I've been dreaming of actually. I know it sounds easy, but the real thing it is not. I don't know how it will treat me later, but one thing for sure..I feel blessed for having this chance. Harap-harap next coming years nanti more good news will hit us. InsyaAllah, Amin! :)
Let's get it started bebeh!
Friday, November 30, 2012
Pengalaman Bersalin ; Just for sharing :)
Alhamdulillah, dah 14 hari aku selamat bersalinkan Aneeq.:) Setelah bergelut dengan kesakitan yang amat sangat selama lebih 2 jam, aku berjaya melahirkan another human being, a baby boy at 3.38kg. Besar jugak la sebenarnya and no wonder masa aku mengandung dulu semua orang asyik tegur perut aku besar je. I was so worried at that time if my baby weight more than 3.5kg sebab chances untuk operate tu macam tinggi jugak. Tapi Alhamdulillah, dapat jugak bersalin normal dengan bantuan vacuum. Eventhough ada orang cakap, 'Eh, kenapa tak bersalin biasa je? Tak larat nak teran ke?' Well hey, aku bersyukur sangat dapat lahirkan anak aku dengan normal even bantuan vacuum, at least aku tak perlu kena operate. Cuma, jahitnya agak banyak jugak tapi takpala, pengalaman pertama kan. :)
Sebelum ni aku selalu confused dengan istilah contraction. Selalu terjadi the false one. Tapi bila sakit contraction yang betul-betul aku dah rasa, sakit nya adalah sangatlah jauh berbeza. Kalau setakat perut mengeras and kau still boleh golek-golek atas katil dengan happy, boleh makan dengan tenang atau sembang-sembang dengan riang, mind my words; itu bukan contraction betul-betul. Maybe baby saja mengeras kat dalam kot. Sebabnya, sakit contraction yang betul-betul ni Ya Allah..sakitnya sangatlah sakit. Macam pinggang kena pulas, macam perut nak pecah. Dan yang paling sakit sebab bila contraction tu datang, korang akan rasa macam nak meneran but you just can't. Doctor tak benarkan proses push tu sampai la bukaan sampai 9cm to 10cm. Kena tahan dan tunggu green light dari doctor. Doctor cakap i'm progressing very well time tu sebab aku tak perlu sakit lama untuk tunggu bukaan sampai 9cm. Just 2 hours, but then for me that 2 hours is the longest time ever. Sebab sakit sangat-sangat...luckily Aizat was there in the labour room. Dia pegang tangan aku kuat-kuat sambil berzikir tak henti-henti. Setiap kali aku contraction, which at that time opening dah 7cm, sakit nya dah makin kerap..dalam 3minit sekali. Aizat akan cakap, 'Sabar sayang..sabar..'. Aku tak menangis, cuma terfikir bila la aku boleh push sebab dah rasa macam nak terkeluar sangat dah..And, at 9.31am, aku selamat melahirkan Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat. :)
Betul orang cakap, menjadi seorang ibu adalah anugerah dari Allah yang tak ternilai harganya. Anak itu adalah amanah Allah, dan setiap kali aku menatap wajah Aneeq, I can't believe that for 9 months aku mengandungkan dia, sekarang ni dia ada di sebelah aku. Another human being man. Rasa macam mimpi. Syukurlah ya Allah.
Lepas melahirkan ni, aku nak nasihatkan semua parents-to-be untuk kuatkan semangat mental dan fizikal hadap situasi anak kena demam kuning or jaundice. Aneeq kena jaundice sampai kena masuk wad kot..sebab kuning dia turun naik..tak tetap..banyak jugakla cara kami usahakan dan Alhamdulillah..Aneeq dah okay sekarang..aku nangis teruk kot bila tengok Aneeq kena duduk bawah lampu sampaikan aku volunteer nak stay dalam ward jaga Aneeq and breastfeed dia. Mungkin sebab kegigihan aku yang tak berbelah bagi pada Aneeq kot, Allah mudahkan dan tolong aku. Aneeq stay dalam ward satu malam je, lepas tu kami monitor dekat Klinik Kesihatan. So nanti pada sapa-sapa yang anak kena jaundice boleh la tanya aku cara-cara perubatan tradisional yang dah diusahakan untuk turunkan bacaan kuning tu. Kita cuma usaha, yang selebihnya serahkan pada Allah. Jangan give up sudah. Yang penting jangan biarkan budak tu kena jaundice lebih dari 14 hari, kalau tak itu dah kena prolonged jaundice, lain cerita pulak. Mintak simpang la...
Ada few friends of mine yang tengah counting days/months for delivery. Aku doakan semuanya akan selamat. Ingat, masa dah masuk ward tapi sakit tu tak datang lagi, tolongla makan bagi ada energy. Jangan tak lalu pulak. Nak meneran nanti wey..tenaga kena banyak. Maksud aku, sangat banyak. Jangan angkat punggung, kalau tak nanti jahitnya pun banyak. Jangan ambil apa-apa pelali kurangkan sakit contraction, kalau tak nanti korang tak da tenaga sebab rasa lali, macam aku..dah cantik meneran, dekat hujung-hujung dah tak mampu sebab tu guna vacuum, dan kena jahit banyaaaakkkkkkkk. Argh..lesson learned kan. Aku share ni sebab aku tau ada kawan-kawan yang tengah expecting akan baca, dan pada yang sedang mencuba pun mungkin akan baca..this is truly my experience. Just for sharing. Semoga selamat untuk korang dan all the best!
Nak share gambar Aneeq, boleh? :)
Ini la kekasih hati baru aku..9 bulan mengandung wey. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat ; 14 days.
:)
Sebelum ni aku selalu confused dengan istilah contraction. Selalu terjadi the false one. Tapi bila sakit contraction yang betul-betul aku dah rasa, sakit nya adalah sangatlah jauh berbeza. Kalau setakat perut mengeras and kau still boleh golek-golek atas katil dengan happy, boleh makan dengan tenang atau sembang-sembang dengan riang, mind my words; itu bukan contraction betul-betul. Maybe baby saja mengeras kat dalam kot. Sebabnya, sakit contraction yang betul-betul ni Ya Allah..sakitnya sangatlah sakit. Macam pinggang kena pulas, macam perut nak pecah. Dan yang paling sakit sebab bila contraction tu datang, korang akan rasa macam nak meneran but you just can't. Doctor tak benarkan proses push tu sampai la bukaan sampai 9cm to 10cm. Kena tahan dan tunggu green light dari doctor. Doctor cakap i'm progressing very well time tu sebab aku tak perlu sakit lama untuk tunggu bukaan sampai 9cm. Just 2 hours, but then for me that 2 hours is the longest time ever. Sebab sakit sangat-sangat...luckily Aizat was there in the labour room. Dia pegang tangan aku kuat-kuat sambil berzikir tak henti-henti. Setiap kali aku contraction, which at that time opening dah 7cm, sakit nya dah makin kerap..dalam 3minit sekali. Aizat akan cakap, 'Sabar sayang..sabar..'. Aku tak menangis, cuma terfikir bila la aku boleh push sebab dah rasa macam nak terkeluar sangat dah..And, at 9.31am, aku selamat melahirkan Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat. :)
Betul orang cakap, menjadi seorang ibu adalah anugerah dari Allah yang tak ternilai harganya. Anak itu adalah amanah Allah, dan setiap kali aku menatap wajah Aneeq, I can't believe that for 9 months aku mengandungkan dia, sekarang ni dia ada di sebelah aku. Another human being man. Rasa macam mimpi. Syukurlah ya Allah.
Lepas melahirkan ni, aku nak nasihatkan semua parents-to-be untuk kuatkan semangat mental dan fizikal hadap situasi anak kena demam kuning or jaundice. Aneeq kena jaundice sampai kena masuk wad kot..sebab kuning dia turun naik..tak tetap..banyak jugakla cara kami usahakan dan Alhamdulillah..Aneeq dah okay sekarang..aku nangis teruk kot bila tengok Aneeq kena duduk bawah lampu sampaikan aku volunteer nak stay dalam ward jaga Aneeq and breastfeed dia. Mungkin sebab kegigihan aku yang tak berbelah bagi pada Aneeq kot, Allah mudahkan dan tolong aku. Aneeq stay dalam ward satu malam je, lepas tu kami monitor dekat Klinik Kesihatan. So nanti pada sapa-sapa yang anak kena jaundice boleh la tanya aku cara-cara perubatan tradisional yang dah diusahakan untuk turunkan bacaan kuning tu. Kita cuma usaha, yang selebihnya serahkan pada Allah. Jangan give up sudah. Yang penting jangan biarkan budak tu kena jaundice lebih dari 14 hari, kalau tak itu dah kena prolonged jaundice, lain cerita pulak. Mintak simpang la...
Ada few friends of mine yang tengah counting days/months for delivery. Aku doakan semuanya akan selamat. Ingat, masa dah masuk ward tapi sakit tu tak datang lagi, tolongla makan bagi ada energy. Jangan tak lalu pulak. Nak meneran nanti wey..tenaga kena banyak. Maksud aku, sangat banyak. Jangan angkat punggung, kalau tak nanti jahitnya pun banyak. Jangan ambil apa-apa pelali kurangkan sakit contraction, kalau tak nanti korang tak da tenaga sebab rasa lali, macam aku..dah cantik meneran, dekat hujung-hujung dah tak mampu sebab tu guna vacuum, dan kena jahit banyaaaakkkkkkkk. Argh..lesson learned kan. Aku share ni sebab aku tau ada kawan-kawan yang tengah expecting akan baca, dan pada yang sedang mencuba pun mungkin akan baca..this is truly my experience. Just for sharing. Semoga selamat untuk korang dan all the best!
Nak share gambar Aneeq, boleh? :)
Ini la kekasih hati baru aku..9 bulan mengandung wey. Ahmad Aneeq bin Ahmad Aizat ; 14 days.
:)
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